Women, how do you like name calling in bed and rough sex?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty rough in bed. I'm not sure if my GF truly likes it or not, she says she does but I feel the possibility that she's saying that to please me.

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When we're having sex and I'm getting really rough, I'll say things like "you fucking bitch, where you going huh" and pin her hands or shoulder down and start going real hard. Or things like "you little fucking slut, keep sucking it like that ughhh" . You know, just stuff like that...

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Hopefully from 18+ answers. This is rated-m! heh

[Blondiee2014]

I don't call her nasty names but I was unsure if my gf likes how rough I can be in bed and I decided to lay off a little bit.
She very quickly let me know that that was exactly what she looked forwards to and got off on the most.
I'm pretty sure the majority of girls enjoy being dominated sexually, so I'm just going to carry on this way until someone tells me they prefer it softer.
Sometimes I'm soft and slow just to be loving, but rough is how she likes it and so do I tbh.

[Izzy2102]

Rough sex yes, but name calling no.
If a guys called me that I think I'd break up right away. I can hardly think anything more disrespectful. I honestly cannot imagine why an girl would like to be called a bitch or whore by her partner. it's just a bit no. It's something I feel very strongly about

[Asker]

This is during sex only... I don't call her any names outside of that.

[skycat]

I feel sex name calling totally different. If its clear he actually thinks quite well of you in real life, and you agree together what can and cannot be said, its fun play. Also, it can go the other way sometimes too.

[skycat]

I'm also a feminist. Which may not make sense to you but I have my reasoning, and part of that is I like things that make my vagina happy.

[Izzy2102]

@asker I understand that

@skycat but do you agree that there are some things you don't want to say? That's how I feel about all... ehm... insults.
And I'm not saying no woman like it, but I don't and I don't understand WHY any girl would like that?
I also consider myself a feminist and I like rough sex and to be dominated, but name calling is just a no. I don't know it feels so personal

[skycat]

I mean I get why you don't like it, and I get why I like it. And I get why someone would be bothered by certain insults especially if it relates to trauma.

A guy who I know respects me normally can call me dirty, because I like being dirty, or a slut, because to me being a slut isn't inherently bad, and I like being his slut. Only in bed, of course, he can say those things cause my mind and being are THERE. But like, if he said something about me being fat that isn't worded like a compliment (i. e- I fucking love your big fat ass) I'd probably flip. Because, trauma.

[pips11]

I like it. I like him being rough but also wanna feel pasionate sex

[Anonymous]

I hope most of them don't expect that, it's something I'd rather not do.

[skycat]

God I love that stuff. Orgasm twice as fast.

[GlitterGirl456]

O. O... you scare me. Rape!! XD Jk

[abundantlyrich]

Wow animal sex.

[Asker]

Yeah... pretty much. Is that good or bad lmao

[abundantlyrich]

You will wear her out.

[Anonymous]

I like it :)