Girlfriend like to show off a bit too much skin should I be concern around other guys?

[Anonymous]

my girlfriend started to sleep over at my place where i have guy roommates she sometimes likes to wear Vneck shirts that make her breast look like their about to pop out and she sometimes jokes about how she's going to show my roommates and one time we were alone and one of my roommates was their and after a shower instead of dressing inside she came out the shower with only her towel wrapped around her and i know for a fact that my roommate saw her and she knows it too but she did show nothing or anything like that but her wet shoulders should i be concern

[kaylaS91]

I wouldn't say that her behaving like that necessarily means she'll cheat. However, it does show that she lack a bit of maturity when it comes to being in a relationship. When she comes back and you see her, mention that you'd prefer her to wear things that are a bit more conservative, or at least don't show quite as much cleavage when around other guys.

Hopefully when she's made aware that it bothers you, she'll keep that in mind and will take more care to not dress as provocatively around other guys.

[Asker]

thanks because she also says im the first person she's been on a relationship with

[kaylaS91]

no problem. :) &yeah, in that case especially she could just be unsure of whether you feel comfortable with that or not.

I say that because early in my relationship, I would wear tops that could be a bit revealing when guys happened to be around. Usually I wouldn't do that intentionally, but since my boyfriend didn't say anything regarding the issue. I figured it was okay, though was actually a bit bothered by him not seeing it as an issue.

A few months later he finally told me he'd prefer if I 'saved' those kind of tops for when I'm just around him. I fully respect that and am actually glad he'd like to have me just to himself lol. So yeah, definitely speak up to your girl about it first before making any rash actions as others are suggesting. :)

[Lexxy666]

Honestly I think she's going to cheat on u, thats so slutty seriously, she doesn't have dignity, how old is she? It was fine until u said she showed up with a towel, like what if it fell off. But its her body she can do whatever she wants.

[Asker]

she's 21 and when she came out the shower she did not stay their where he was which was the living room she walked into the room to dress bc the room is like literally right next the shower and thanks for your opinion much appreciated

[Lexxy666]

Oh, then don't worry, she just wanted to pass by, happens. She loves u probably just wants to see if u get jealous, just to see how much u like her, I did something like that once. Don't worry :) And yeah welcome.

[Asker]

yes she knows it does but the thing is when we are alone she wears sweaters and i would like for her to wear those vnecks then lol

[Lexxy666]

Lol haha tell her then, or buy her a really cute dress, and then tell her to wear it when u guys are alone.

[Asker]

see i would but we dont always have alone time and now because she seems busy can i ask you another question about her? lol

[Lexxy666]

Sure ask anything

[Asker]

thanks can i send you a message?

[Lexxy666]

Sure message me @Lexxy666

[Asker]

i can't seem to message you or compose a new message lol

[Lexxy666]

Lol tell me ur name then on this

[Asker]

its @IC194

[Lexxy666]

@IC194 Are u sure about that lol.

[Asker]

yeah thats my user name i just joined this site lol

[Lexxy666]

Okay so click my name here and then on the bottom it says actions so click send message. Or make ur name here not anonymous so I can message,

[blobbysaurus]

You chose to go out with her. Take her as she is or leave. Never a good idea trying to change people..

[TheWiseOwl]

She's an attention seeker and likes male attention. Her behaviour is disrespectful and i wouldn't tolerate it. I'd dump her ass.

[Asker]

i had a feeling she and yes im considering that i haven't seen her bc she went with family out of town but if she continues to do it ill just tell her how it bothers me and if it continues ill dump her thanks for your info

[SomeoneImportant]

No you shouldn't, don't let it bother you, and most importantly, don't show that it bothers you.

[Asker]

i know but its too late for that she knows it does lol

[SomeoneImportant]

You can still pull it off. Just don't give her any type of emotional reaction. Because that's why she's doing it, let go of the fear of her possibly getting another guy, because that's the only reason it bothers you, it's your ego getting in the way. You don't want her to know she put fear in you, trust me, you don't want her to have that power

[Asker]

That's true bro it used to be the other way around but because i got attached to her i tend to get jealous but now that i haven't seen her until the end of next months hopefully i get over it

[SomeoneImportant]

She used to be the one worried about losing you huh? Not surprising, that's what happens man, that's how girls gain or attempt to gain power over you in the relationship. You know what goes through a girls mind when you start to show that attachment and need? "Gotcha bitch"

[Asker]

Haha that's true she has the upper hand for now. But like you said ill try to hide my feelings and show that i don't care like i did at first.

[SomeoneImportant]

Atta boy, go take back the kingdom.

[apple24]

Wth ! Boys are so strange...

[Schnurri]

Yeah, that's really immature, but you should tell her that it bothers you.

[Your_boss]

Yes you should
It sounds like she likes the attention she gets from showing off her body

[blondfrog]

Yeah I would be concerned too just tell her that you don't like it. Tell her how would you like it if I started making you jealous in front of other girls?