Girls, Why do girls enjoy showing off their privates (see through tights, ass cheek jean shorts, low cut tops, no bras, camel toes... etc.) but?

[Anonymous]

... but get all pissed off, annoyed, or creeped out, when guys take notice?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Because some guys over exaggerate. What she's wearing could be a normal outfit but some thirsty men will act like she's naked and not know how to act normally about it. Some guys can't even control themselves when a woman is fully dressed in cold weather so I can believe they'd act like idiots if a girl dares to wear shorts in the summertime. They're your eyes so you can look and she is also allowed to be disgusted by you and your attention. Don't make the mistake of thinking that she has to welcome your attention Bc she doesn't. She's allowed to think ur gross

[Asker]

Nah... Ghetto trash will act like that but what I am talking about is when women actually walk around with their genitals showing and males are simply looking, without being obscene like the female is being. They get shamed for it.

[biracialQT]

Because girls should be able to wear wear whatever the fuck we want, without being bothered or violated for it!
Men should control themselves.
These things you're saying sound a lot like
"She got raped because she was asking for it wearing that skirt"

[Asker]

So guys should be allowed to walk around with their dick hanging out of their clothes and women should not be allowed to get "offended" or shame them in any way, right?

[biracialQT]

Sweety guys already have been walking around topless for years with no trouble, but the mibute a womam does it, its weird, and provocative!
But to answer the question, yes a guy should also be able to wear whatever he wants without trouble

[Asker]

Topless is a cop out answer. Men can't walk around with their genitals out.

But I also agree women's breast shouldn't be stigma'd but female breast are used by women for sexual arousal and therefore are sexual... Men's are not.

[biracialQT]

I understand what you're saying but a mans abs can be very arousing too in the bedroom, but if i see a topless guy with abs walking down thevstreet, you dont ssee me staring.
In my country men are also allowed to have their genitals out in public, just like women, just not many people do it!

[Asker]

being arousing and being used for sexual stimulation are two different things. Women's breast are used by women for sexual pleasure during sex, ads are not used by men to get sexual pleasure.

Also. I see girls staring at guys all the time on the street, I also see girls cat calling, but women are not shamed for their sexuality or being sexual aggressive.

So you say in the Netherlands, guys can walk around I shorts where their penis can fall out of their pants (possibly around children) and no one says anything?

or do men not do it simply because they would be shamed if they tried?

[Cjanes]

I find it is hilarious that you ask for people's opinions on here and just say they are wrong. People are not just going to agree with you when they feel you are mistaken I recommend that you don't ask questions you don't want the answer to or at least accept the fact these people don't agree with you rather than arguing

[Asker]

I never said the answers were wrong. I disagreed with them because they were not answering the question as it was asked. They were making it about fully clothed girls and guys catcalling. I never asked about either of those. I simply asked the question about girls walking around with their privates being made public and guys looking. Yet couldn't get a straight answer without it trying to be turned into a males are scum rant.

[Account]

You're deeply mistaken. They don't get pissed when guys notice them. They get pissed when guys think it's their right to touch them, to use vulgar language in front of them and to be offensive towards them.

[Asker]

Nope, I'm not mistaken. I myself and almost of not all men that I know or know of have at some point been called a creep, pervert, pig... etc because he is looking at a girl who is putting it out there for attention.

[Account]

If you were merely staring at her, I see no reason why they'd call you a creep. It makes no sense.

[Asker]

Well it happens everywhere to any male who the girl doesn't find attractive herself.

[Zendrya]

It's not that you notice... at least for me... it is the fact that guys tend to become pigs when they notice. I didn't think anyone wore see through tights, or sported a camel toe on purpose...

[Asker]

Why are we pigs for enjoying the sexual display that females are putting on? We are genetically programmed to respond to the female body and therefore if women are peacocking themselves for the attention, we should not be shamed for giving them that attention.
I am sure many girls don't actively sport cameltoe on purpose, but when you wear cloth as tight as skin and super thin, you have to expect that it will happen, and when they wear jean thongs (the super high cut daisy dukes) your labia will hang out and girls don't seem to be bothered by this display.

[Zendrya]

No you misunderstand. I am bisexual so I completely understand the enjoying of sexy clothes and what not but what guys do that I myself don't do at least is make a show about it. Sure I look and I smile and I may point out the hot chick to my boyfriend but I don't catcall her or if it is here in gag I don't feel the need to message her and be like damn girl wanna share nudes? That is what I mean by most guys (not all) being pigs.

[Asker]

I don't cat call. The only guys I ever see cat call are the lower rung of society types. You never see a guy in a suit cat call.
The losers on gag who ask for nudes are the immature virgin boys, or the not north American broken English idiots.

But in society, as a male I know that if I look at a girl because her genitals are hanging out of her clothes, her and her friends will turn and call me a pig or a creep. I have seen and had this done, without any words coming out of my mouth. Just simply enjoying the free show.

[Zendrya]

Ahh well I don't mind a guy looking at me or giving me a nod and a smile but when he is like "Hey Girl" or tries to approach me is when it makes me uncomfortable.

[biracialQT]

@Asker what if the girl is displaying body parts let's say cleavage, not for male attention, but simply because she likes the style of the shirt?
I personally don't dress for anyone else but me and maybe my friends if we decide to wear matching clothing or something and I'm prettu sure most girls do the same as i do!

[Zendrya]

I think no matter what you are wearing people are probably going to look at you even if you are modest and fully covered. So if I look at someone to observe them as a person and I notice that they are showing cleavage I am not going to just look away. She is wearing what she is wearing with the knowledge that people are going to see her and therefore if she doesn't want people looking she shouldn't be showing cleavage. So I guess the point is that if she knows people are going to see her why would she call people a creep for looking at her. The asker is saying that he isn't talking about guys who are catcalling but just guys that are looking. @biracialQT

[biracialQT]

@Zendrya true, looking is one thing, but staring is just rude, i mean i look at people and their clothing, but i never stare because my momma taught me that's rude. So if a man stares at a woman's cleavage he's not necessarily a creep, he's just rude

[Asker]

@biracialQT When a female dresses in something she feels is pretty, she is almost always basing that on what society is telling her is currently in fashion because it is deemed attractive or sexy. Therefore even when dressing for themselves, they are dressing for others.

Also staring isn't rude when the person is making their PRIVATE parts PUBLIC. Being obscene in public and around children is wrong, and assuming you have a RIGHT to display your genitals in public simply because you are female is rude.

[Zendrya]

Asker can't tag because he is anonymous but @biracialQT he is trying to tell you something

[Asker]

It wasn't as much to tag but to show who I was speaking to. But thanks.

[Zendrya]

Ya but she won't see it if she isn't tagged cause she won't get a notification.

[biracialQT]

@Asker i disagree, i think most girls dress a certain way because they feel comfortable in or because they like the style of clothing, the clothing represents themselves, matches their personality and such. Most girls don't wake up, put on an outfit and think "well this is probably an outfit everyone in the street will love today! I feel great!"
Also staring is always rude, the reason doesn't matter! What you're saying is just like sayig "ignoring someone isn't rude, if they're saying something i don't agree with"
And last but not least; I'm not saying that i should be able to wear whatever i want because I'm a female, I'm saying everyone should be able to wear whatever the fuck they want because we're all people and acceptance of each others physical appearances is important for society to grow!

[Asker]

I am sure they like the style of clothing because it is what they are told is currently the in thing, the clothing represents what society deems popular, their personality is a product of the world around them, this is why people today don't dress today like people in the past. It has nothing to do with their personality, it's what is currently being pushed.
Most girls put on an outfit and think "does my ass look fat" or "do I look sexy" (this is based on how she feels other people will see her, not her own personal feelings.

Wearing whatever we want should still have decency and social respect involved. Children don't need to see our genitals. Males are not permitted to wear what ever they want. Society does NOT allow it. This is something only women can use their sexuality to get away with and then men are shamed for taking the natural sexual interest in a peacocking female of the species. You can not reform biology so it shouldn't be shamed either.