Why do girls enjoy getting and being dominated so much?

[Anonymous]

Why do they enjoy it? What do girls get from being treated worse then their partner, being bossed around, and treated like an object?

[FakeName123]

It's quite simple. Biologically speaking men are the active and women are the receptive ones. That does not mean one is more powerful or worth more than the other, but there is a complementing of each other. If men and women weren't meant to complement each other, we would be hermaphrodites. Let's just look at the act itself - the man penetrates (active) the woman (receiving).

That being said, women rarely want to be subjugated and dominated - but they want to be lead. There is a reason why women are indeed attracted to alpha-males - even though there is a common misinterpretation of what alpha means as that is dependant on the woman. For some it means intelligence, for others it relates to physical strength, again others base it around being the leader of his social circle, some want the guy to be rich and/or successful in job-life, etc

And alpha-men (gosh, I dislike that term - but it fits nonetheless) do indeed lead, they don't dominate. This picture sums it up perfectly - even though it has a different context: saeedhm.files.wordpress.com/.../...der-800x800.png

Now why do women like to be increasingly dominated in this day and age? I think it has to do with three aspects:

1. An unhealthy development of sexuality instead of a natural progression of understanding ones own.

2. The sexual liberate and hedonistic lifestyle focusing more on pure desire and lust and thus being more into the actual primal drives and urges - aka being dominated instead of having intimate and affectionate sex.

3. Men and women losing their gender-identity more and more. Neither is really embracing masculinity and femininity anymore. Many men aren't men anymore, but complete wusses (note: the is a difference between having and showing emotions and being a wuss) or over-compensating with hyper-masculinity (aka complete jerks). The same is for women who deny themselves the beauty of their inner femininity and strive to abandon it. (read: https://www.mostlyodd.com/death-by-utopia/ )
Now this results in a re-balancing of the mind. Imagine it like - this is an extreme example now - rape victims who often turn out to become hypersexual or asexual.
It is a coping mechanism of the mind to attempt to balance itself out in one way or another. Now those women who are into actual dominating balance themselves out in that hyper-receptiveness aka being subjugated. It is in a way an unhealthy outburst of what is else suppressed.
After all, sexuality is not an independent entity, but reflects who we are and/or what we really need deep down and sometimes distorts it.

[JuicyBrain]

You are wrong. The submissive has all the power. She gets done to her what she wants, not what she doesn't. She gives you the illusion of free will when in fact, there is nothing you can do to her that she will not let you do. She is just curious to see what it is of all the things she will let you do that you want to do now.

[Asker]

Ask her who's got the power when she's begging me to let her cum

[HyperOrphic]

Not all women view being dominated as being treated like an object or treated badly, you're likely thinking of more hardcore BDSM or humiliation fetishes. The concept for the average woman (at least for myself and women I know) like the idea of their man being in control because it eliminates their responsibility temporarily and allows them to simply enjoy being pleasured by someone who we see as strong and in control, which are traits commonly viewed as attractive.

[kaylaS91]

It's not the being objectified that we like. It's the dominance that the guy is showing that's a huge turn on. Everything else is just an accessory to that.

I like being dominated, but I'd only do that with someone I trust and who I know cares for me. Like a type of role-play, nothing more. I'd hate that sort of relationship as a lifestyle, or out of the bedroom in any way.

[Anonymous]

When I say I like a dominant man doesn't mean I like to be treated badly. I'm not looking for a master/slave relationship lol. When I say I like dominant men, I mean alpha males. Guys with the take charge attitude. I find it hot and endearing.

[Asker]

If you enjoy Alpha, then you enjoy him having his way with you.

[Candy_Girl]

thats not true at all. I enjoy doing the dominating too. But there's something about a powerful woman that turns me on as well...

[Asker]

Not true at all? Don't be so dishonest.

[Candy_Girl]

lol! WTF? why would i be dishonest about this? hahaha

[Prof_Don]

The key question I must ask you;

do you think of women as "less" worthy of respect, because they like their dude to show off some strength and dominance?

[Asker]

no.
..

[douride2]

Sorry to break it to you. Not all women like being dominated. This one in particular won't allow herself to be.

[Asker]

You're like 40... sorry to break it to you

[JuicyBrain]

@Asker Yeah, sorry to break it to you, but 40 is the time in a woman's life where she is at her peak sexually, not only they desire sex, but they have the experience and they know stuff 18yo don't even suspect...

[douride2]

Pretty cocky for some anon 18 yr old?
I could show you things you never even dreamed of.

[douride2]

@JuicyBrian. Thanks lmao hahahaha

[Asker]

Anon 24 year old*
You could show me stuff? Like what, menopause?

[douride2]

U have no idea do U?
18/24 your still anon.

[musicbrain5]

I'm not one who enjoys that at all. But I guess the ones who like it enjoy feeling helpless and whatnot.

[ClariceOwen23]

Ask the girls that do enjoy it. I like to dominate the guy instead

[SEIFON]

good (y)

[Noxifer626]

Oh, yeah. I love femdom too!

[Asker]

'Ask the girls that do enjoy it' ... the fuck you think I'm doing.

[ClariceOwen23]

Lol, I don't know why but that made me laugh

[LeedsDude]

It's in there DNA to be submissive it's how they survived caveman days.

[ClariceOwen23]

Definitely not in my DNA

[Anonymous]

I only like being dominated during sex. If you boss me around in regular life then I'll get mad.

[Asker]

Get mad, get punished.

[DaddyRollingStone]

It's the nature of the human female. You will learn this in due time.

[existing_not_living]

Biological? I dunno. I just find it really hot.

[Asker]

I know you do

[existing_not_living]

Okay...

[TheButterfly]

Sexual fantasies yes, but not in general

[Asker]

When its in general you feel sexually charged up all the time.

[TheButterfly]

Pretty sure if a guy told me what to do all the time and didn't let me think for myself, we would not be in a relationship or have sex

[Asker]

Definitely doesn't have to be that extreme where you don't even think for herself. He just tells her where they're going to eat and what to wear, that's more how I think it should be.

[TheButterfly]

I just like equality, perhaps where to eat but not what to wear

[Asker]

Equality while a good concept, is not realistic. Men and women are vastly different and will never be equal.

[TheButterfly]

Perhaps not in some aspects, like a man can never become pregnant, but in aspects we can control, yes equality should be in place

[COCOCHANEL]

i don't know i only like it sometimes

[ThatBritishLad]

Some people, like me, are followers.

[Anonymous]

it turns them on. it turns me on ;)

[Asker]

It's hot as all hell, I can't blame you