Why do Black Women prefer white men?

[Anonymous]

I'm black and no black women seem to be interested in me. Where I live it's rare to see a black couple.

I've dating 2 black women. During the time I dating them. They both said they're preference is white. One of them is now engaged to a white man.

Every black girl a I talk to says she all for the white. I even notice Black women stay in relationships white men who treat like shit.

Can u black women explain?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think it's always was more real than the opposite, but the American media always had the sexist idea of try to please the ego of the non-white men of the other race for years and the ego of black men and black women.

I remember on my old school many black girls wanting white guys but I never viewed white girls wanting blacks around 1998 and 2004

Americans always wanted to pretend that Asian women aren't attracted to white men to please the ego of some Asian men, then americans tried to boycott, demoralize, relate white men with bad things and accept every excuse of Asian men to try to undermine the relationship of white men but they don't make this with white women because they want to please the fetish of the men of other race in white women while worked for years trying to undermine, demoralize, relate with bad things, boycott the relationship of white men with non-white women because they need white men for white supremacism and force them dating white women while they pretend to be anti-racist being sexist and having double standard to create official racial propaganda of 100% of support for white women with other race.

Look at the internet, have many websites who have black guys who pretend to be women for their fetish in white women mixed with the racial fantasy forced by americans for years trying to please the fetish and ego fantasy of black men in themselves wanting to have fantasies of being the desired by women of other race over the white men and americans tried to please the ego, fetishes and sexual fantasies of black men for years against the men of other race (White men) and wanting the women of other races, but pretending that are the women of other races seeking for black men and not the truth that always were black men desperate seeking for women of other races because this would destroy the American manipulation narrative for the fetishes and ego fantasy of black men who Americans artificially created for them as anti-racist politics

[Opinion Owner]

I remember that between 1960 the relationships started with white men and black women, but this would destroy the ego and masculinity of black supremacist men from this time and the white woman feminism, so the hijacked the couples who started between white men and black women in 1960 to become the propaganda American political racial forced image of black men and white women. Also, I don't know how many things about the past were truth or manipulation to try to make the ego and feelings of black men feel better.

I never know about black men and white women before the internet because I never viewed white girls wanting blacks in my school but I remember many black girls wanting white guys since this time.

Look at the American relationships, they have fakes on the internet made by Asian man or black man against white men, they have the official American politics who try to boycott and undermine mainly the relationships of non-white women with white men while push white women for years

[Opinion Owner]

Americans for years tried to make the relationship between non-white women and white men be viewed as jokes, aberration, shaming while nothing officially made against white women who always were the ones related with the most sick things but with good propaganda and manipulation to support them. I think they need to use white women as official fetish to pretend to be anti-racist, while they need to force white men with white women to keep white supremacism. So the strategy is try to demoralize, boycott, shaming, low and divide white men with another women, this make the Asian man feel better, this make the black men feel better, and this keep the racial white woman image on the pedestal because the white male is boycotted, demoralized and related to bad things but nothing is made against white women who is the official race of women with the most real sick and bad things related to them, but don't have political agenda against white women to destroy their image and relationships.

[Opinion Owner]

I think white women are the only white people who get 100% of privileges with no backlash and nothing made against them in explicit way to remove the white woman of the confortable zone and make them really feel bad and undermine their lives like a compensation for all these years of white women living pampered and in easy mode.

[Ivanafoster1212]

Just because your black doesn't mean you have to be with a black person... Annnd just because your black doesn't mean you get the right to have first dibs on a black girl. We all have different tastes and want different kinds of people. Staying within your own race is not mandatory anymore it's optional. Im black and I have dated all kinds of different races, and I am currently in a long term relationship with a white man. We care and love eachother and that's all that matters. I am with him because I like different things and I like to surround myself with different cultures instead of only surrounding myself with my own culture.. it's fun and it helps me to have an open mind. And my boyfriend gets to experience my culture as well to its works for both of us.

They're are tons of black woman who only date black guys so it's not ALL black women. And the women who stay with any man who treats her like crap whether he's black or white is horrible... Shouldn't be based on race, many woman stay with black men who treat them like garbage aswell.

Hey! Why not try dating a white or Asian woman.. There are many women of different races who will care and love you all the same. If some black women are trying something diffrent you can too.

Life is to short to be close minded!!

[Ivanafoster1212]

*too

[existing_not_living]

Well, it's not as if black guys have been the most faithful to our race either. Black guys have been interracially dating far earlier than black women. Most of them treat us without respect. We've gotten sick and tired of it. I will date any race. I don't have a racial preference. I do, though, mainly date white men. It's not because I like them more, but it's because they are the only race that usually takes an interest in me. I don't get approached by black guys and the black guys I may find an interest in are dating who? White women. So, it kind of goes both ways.

While many might attack me for this opinion, many black guys are much more likely to go for a white woman even if she is ugly as hell than they are to go for a black woman even when she is beautiful. They pass them up. I'm not generalizing. From my observations, this is what I have noticed and I've talked to many other people, including white people, who have noticed the same.

[Ghosted]

yeaaa im not black but even i noticed this. my black caribbean male friend thinks black women are attrative but he wants to just date or marry white or light skin women because he wants light skin kids and he likes the contrast. weirded me out to hear this

[hopefulandwaiting]

Again with these kinds of questions. Let's expose a little truth:

1. Some black women like white guys that have a hint of "swagger" or realness and connect with them personally.
2. Most black women prefer black guys, but are willing to date other races. (Typically those most similar to them culturally)
3. Decent black guys like the non-stereotypical, educated, healthy black women; if one area is lacking then they might go to white women. (The average decent white lady is easier to find than the average decent black lady- let's be real guys.)
4. Some people have a preference... it is what it is.

p. s. I like Hispanics :B

[Anonymous]

I have noticed this trend recently. But black guys have been doing this for a while. Maybe black woman are finally becoming smarter lol! Jk.

But really, I have noticed it's normally the bigger black girls that date white. Same with bigger white girls date black. Not always the case, but yeah. I've yet to find a skinny pretty, smart, light skins black girl that liked white guys. Most like black

And let's not forget about the stereotype that is drilled in everyone subconscious. The untrue "big dick" that all black men have. This makes some white males not want to date black woman, so again they want what they can't have. Also, makes white woman attracted to black men.

[Anonymous]

Same thing with me, bro! I live in Dallas, TX.

-On Tinder, a majority of the black say they are down for the "swirl" and are attracted to ONLY white guys.
-When I go out, I sometimes see cute black women hanging around white guys
-I see a lot of black women in my area dating white men now and are extremely attracted to them.
-Hell, even on social media, a recent girl I was into, I looked at her Facebook and her status was "I want a white boy so bad!" and she was black.

As a black man, I am attracted to all races... but I am attracted to black women the most. It just stinks for me that all of them like white guys now :/

[Afrochick]

ew lol thats creepy

[Opinion Owner]

@Afrochick What's creepy

[EmotionalAction]

If you're in a primarily white country, it could be that reason. It could seem exotic to have someone of a different colour, could be that they really like our eyes and stuff. As a white guy I often enough prefer darker girls, although preferences do change.. You'll probably find it's just because it's something different

[LifeEqualsLove]

There's this false perception that white men treat black women better than black men.

The truth of the matter is, color does not make the anyone better. Its how much you care about them.

So in their mind, they go for the guy who they think will care for them more, which isn't usually true.

[Rufus335]

i think geography plays a huge roll. Where im from it seems like white chicks are after black or Asian dudes. hispanic and Asian chicks prefer white dudes. its just what it seems like. i think my opinion is very biased and generalized. I dont believe this is the case, it is just how it seems. You need to realize that yourself

[OphieWilde]

I'm a black girl that's only dated white guys. But I think it's just the area where you live, because it's just like that where I am.

[August16]

where do you live because I don't see that where I live you don't really see it its usually black men and white women or any other race but black women

[OphieWilde]

@August16 Northern California. It's really, really common.

[August16]

I can see that I live in southern California

[Braziiliangirll9]

I only viewed this thing of black men and white women in American media and the people from internet talking about this, mostly black men trying to brag about this like some pride but I never viewed this happens in real life, always were the most common black girls and white guys because the white girls don't wanted blacks and black girls wanted white guys. I remember this on my school and where I live. And the media and propaganda always tried to force black men with white women to please the black men who wanted this so much and try to make the white women want black men. At least I think this because in the media I see the narrative of the white women seeking for blacks instead of the black seeking for the white woman that were the first thing that I always had in my mind because I never viewed white girls in my school, or white women who were rich seeking or wanting blacks, I only remember the girls who were ugly with blacks or the rich black man in sport tv or music with white wom

[HQgirl95]

Well I'm black and I tend to be attracted to white men more than black men. I don't have a solid reason behind my preference.

[itsallover]

We don't prefer white men, lol. Like at all. Majority of us will marry black men, if you refer to statistics.

[fhuey]

I actually think its vice versa. I've heard way more of my black male friends say they would rather be with a white or non black woman than be with a black woman and I've heard black woman say they would rather be with a black guy.

[Scrimshaw]

Damn, son... If this makes you feel better, a lot of them really don't!

Black women and white men both traditionally hate each other due to history, and those thoughts still go on today. So such a couple will look really odd in this society.

[thewanderingme]

lol, this is all nonsense. true there aren't as many black woman white man couples, but they definitely don't hate each other.

[BabyCrazy]

True! I don't like white guys like that. Don't find them attractive in the least, I need black dick. Gimme black dick

[rosejean]

non sense.

[BabyCrazy]

Ewww...those are bed wenches.

[Watermelonoma]

just date outside of the black community. its easy. At the end of the day, your question doesn't matter because, well, who cares about the "why". That's on them. Focus on you.

[dwright9224]

I'll date any race. I just happen to be more attracted to white guys. And I don't know about the black women who date guys that abuse them. Because I cannot relate to such self-disrespect.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't take a certain race to explain you're simply sexually attacked to what you're. I'm not racist, but I'm not sexually attacked to black men. I even gave it a try.

[Dez22]

You should ask the black girls you dated cuz i dont have a racial preference...

[Anonymous]

It's not black women, its not black men, its not white men, its you!

[thewanderingme]

best answer here.

[DizzyAster]

Maybe you need to move.
If the majority race is white, then it makes sense that a person would date white. It's like this one (black) guy I knew who moved to Japan, guess who he married?

[abundantlyrich]

They have better interpersonal skills than you? 😅😢

[Xlink]

Lol where do u live. because I only see black woman with black men.

[ThatBritishLad]

You've got a massive experience in this sort of thing I take it chief?

[IceEverest]

I am nor Black nor White and do not have a preference...

[crazyymann]

i have never seen a black woman who talks in my language in my country. so i dont know what to say mate.