How do I know if my girlfriend likes it when I touch her breasts/ass?

[Mr_killar]

So me and my girl were kissing and when it gets too hot I usually grab or caress her ass and she seems like she doesn't mind it , also went ahead and held her breasts for a bit as a joke and she had this little giggle and I think she's a bit okay with it.
But the question is , how do I know if she likes it when do that or is just okay with it because I just want to make her feel good.

[Matt21]

well normally I would say make it clear with your actions what you'd like to do without actually doing it. for example caressing her body around those areas and wait for her to make the first move by moving so your hands touch those areas. I'd also say to ask if what you're doing is okay and they'll often say it's more than okay which would let you know that she might be open to continuing.

In your case you guys already did these things so she's probably okay with it.
to make sure, I would have a long cuddling session where you don't really make a move and then ask her if it's okay when you touch her and that you respect her body and want to make sure!

she'll respect how you care about her and you'll get to find out for sure.

[Mr_killar]

This was an amazing explanation thank you!

[Matt21]

I wish you two the best!
the fact that you're wanting to make sure will show her that you're an amazing dude that's worth keeping around

[AriadneSky]

#MHO

[Shadow44]

Ask her. Some people are shy so they may not say anything. I had an ex giggle and then say things were moving too fast after we talked about boundsries and said she liked it. It could also be she giggled because she's shy and new to it and liked it. No woman will think less of you for asking and wanting to know her boundsries.

[gigi5678]

she seems ok with it lol but if you want to make sure when you do it, ask. for example, hug her and kiss her and slide your hands down to her ass and kiss down her neck then whisper in her ear "do you like this baby?" do the same with her breasts example: when you're kissing her, flip her around and pull her against your body so her back is to your chest and kiss along her neck and her shoulder and slowly move your hands up from her waist to her breasts and ask the same thing.

[gigi5678]

thanks for the mho!

[Anonymous]

she will find a way to either show you what she wants, or tell you what she doesn't want. as long as you respect that and don't just jump from 0-60 in the blink of an eye she will definitely let you explore

[sherlocksgirl]

Honestly, you have to talk about it! :) It is very important to have conversations about what you like and don't like, be open and TALK. This is the only way you will know! :)

[Tigerpaw007]

So girls love it when someone touches their ass or breasts just because it fields their pleasure gland making its award gland makes them feel happy when it happens again.

[PersonToReckonWith]

I would say ask her. it really depends on the girl. like, me, I'm really into that. I enjoy those intimate touches. just be open with her and ask.

[mooky06]

She wouldn't like it if she guides your hands and puts them somewhere else.

[Matt21]

yeah if she does this or moves so that her body is no longer under your hands you need to stop right away!

[mooky06]

@Matt21 👍🏽

[thetruehybrid]

look for a reaction during intimacy. different girls react differently and are more/less sensitive to those areas

[supersphinx]

it can tickle sometimes but honestly if she doesn't tell you to stop or move your hand then she most likely okay if not down with it

[YourPsycho]

If she doesn't say stop or pushes you away you're fine

[Anonymous]

I think that's a personal preference thing, but if she's giggling I wouldn't worry about it. Honestly, sometimes that stuff tickles, or weird parts of skin tickle that you didn't realize previously, so you could've just grazed one of those areas. Don't worry about it unless she specifically tells you she doesn't like it.

[doctorloveadvice]

She'll tell you if she doesn't or she'll move your hand

[FýrdracaDócincel]

One of my exes giggled too. Try to make the situation more erotic. Then she might actually show arousal in some way.

[Anonymous]

ASK HER. And stop taking liberties without knowing if she likes it first, please. Get consent. Consent is sexy.

[xoAngel]

grab her by the pussy, you'll know

[Mr_killar]

made my day😂

[Anonymous]

girls don't get turned on by this. it's only for the lad, u might as well be grabbing our little rolls of fat on our bellys

[AriadneSky]

if its done right it feels amazing., if its just grabbing it feels horrible and i won't kiss him.

speak up :)

[Ragdoll18]

Ask her, but she probably likes it ;)

[AriadneSky]

she should tell you or move your hand.

[AriadneSky]

... its best to cuddle for a bit without doing anything, giving time to get used to just feeling close, then move hand slow so she has time to stop if necessary some guys go fast so you can't stop bc by the time you go to move it they are somewhere else. lol

[lilliank]

ask her?

[CountCasanunda]

ask her?

[morganlarson]

Ask her !