What would you do if someone you knew raped your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Guys if your girlfriend told you that she was raped by someone that you were closed to, how would you react to this? Like if it was a brother, cousin, uncle, best friend or even step-father. Someone that you are very close to and care about. Maybe someone that you felt you should be more loyal to than your girlfriend. Would you blame her or be angry with her? Would you leave her even though she could prove to you it was rape and not consensual? If anyone has ever experienced this. Please tell me how you felt and what you did about it.

[Loganth]

If someone you care about is hurt you will be upset with the person that has caused it. But in all cases if I like a girl and she gets raped my first priority is making her feel safe and help her. Not take revenge. Rape isn't a good thing so informing the police is a good thing. But for me personally my priority would be with the girl I like and making her feel better, if someone I cared about was the person that caused it I would cut off ties. No matter what some lines must not be crossed.

[notallthere98]

I would side with my girlfriend. It wouldn't matter who'd done it. I know what it's like to be sexually abused and have people take my abuser's side. I would never do that to someone. It would be the same if a friend or family member of mine raped a stranger. I will always take the side of the victim

[notallthere98]

As for what I would do, that would be up to her. If she wants to report it, I will support and help her with that as much as I can. If she wants to gather the evidence but not take legal action yet because she's unsure, I will do everything I can to make easier for her. If she doesn't want either of those options, I will still support her. After what she went through, the last thing I would do is make her feel like I'm taking another choice away from her. No matter what she choses, at the very least I will cut all tied with the person who raped her. They would be dead to me. I've cut people put of my life for less

[Angel90]

If I was a man I would be on her side and collect of the evidence that it is what happened and if it came out to be true I would fuck the man who did it and never would I have any sort of relations with this person... Noone would be messing up with my Girl

[teju990]

May u become a police

[Angel90]

what police have anything to to with that? you can go to hospital for the check or make lie detector test.

[Angel90]

it also called evidence

[Aces_high]

Call the police, the sooner that they can investigate the better chances of there being a favourable result. On top of that I would probably not talk to that person again and probably make a threat on their life and say in my testimony later I had a temporary mental breakdown due to the stress/ betrayal and was not in control of my own actions.

[GingerGuy]

I think I'd have to be in that situation to know. I couldn't imagine anyone I know doing this. Every guy would react differently. Obviously if they did, and proven they did (not just allegations) that would be the end of any relationship I had with them. The only way I'd be upset or mad with girlfriend is if she was lying about it and I knew this for certain. Are you in this situation? Wondering whether to tell your bf?

[Asker]

Yes. I'm afraid he will leave me and I'm in love with him.

[GingerGuy]

I don't know your bf's personality, or how good your relationship is, but I doubt he will. My first reaction would be concern for you. Having said that though, because it's someone he knows (close to him?), if you have some kind of proof of it, it will help. He'll be having mixed feelings over it for sure, but I can't see him leaving you. Again, it would only be if you were lying about it.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[BigRayFromNC]

If you have actual proof and evidence of this immediately contact the police or local law enforcement without any hesitation at all. The amount of unreported rapes in this Country is at alarming levels. Rape is usually a felony crime and if that individual is arrested and convicted of that rape they will spend a long time in a maximum security prison where they belong. As I said if you have actual proof and evidence pick up the phone and dial 911.

[notallthere98]

Sadly even with proof the likelihood that they will face prison time, let alone years, is unlikely. The father of a relative of mine was arrested for child pornography. There was evidence on his computer that he'd abused multiple children and produced child porn, and he was in prison less than a year. This fuck up country rarely gives justice to the victims

[BigRayFromNC]

@notallthere98 It does not matter one bit how much time has passed as the statutes of limitations on rape have no time limits as in each and every U. S. State rape is a felony crime and if a person is convicted of it can be sentenced up to 30 years in a maximum security prison. Yes, I agree with you that some of the laws in this Country are beyond fucked up!!!

[GrayWhi2]

First I will find out if this was true. And if this is true even if the guy is my father or brother I will first kidnapp him and tie him with a chair and take out his nails... burn his tounge.. break at least 20 teeth and finally I will carve the sentence "I am a raper" everywhere in his body and many tortures but I will keep him alive

[Kat_puppies]

i like you :)

[GrayWhi2]

LOL 😂😂😂😂

[Kat_puppies]

LOL i swear i would do that to someone

[GrayWhi2]

I think I know that guy 😂😂

[Kat_puppies]

oml lol

[GrayWhi2]

not in real life.. gag life.. I would rather be a monkeys uncle instead of knowing that guy in real life..

[winterfox10]

Well I was raped myself, so I would never blame her. But I’d ask her what she wanted me to do. If the rape was recent I would be angry and if it happened a while ago I would be sad.

[Asker]

Who raped you?

[winterfox10]

An older cousin

[Asker]

I'm so sorry

[winterfox10]

Thank you... it is what it is but I would be lying if I said it didn’t fuck me up for a long time. Who raped you?

[Asker]

My boyfriends stepbrother. They grew together since kids and are closer than blood brothers.

[winterfox10]

That’s horrible! 😧 Stay strong sweetie...

[Asker]

I'm trying. I'm afraid to tell him because loosing him would be worse than the rape.

[winterfox10]

The thing of it is that he won’t believe you. Your boyfriend thinks he knows his step brother. All you can do is tell him the story and hope he comes around.

[Asker]

Id rather just deal with the rape

[winterfox10]

If you ever just feel like blowing off some steam, you can message me

[Asker]

You're a sweetheart thank you

[TripleAce]

I would think that person has some major issues that need to be resolved... something is wrong up there to make such a decision...

[worldscolide]

That person would be dead.. Not, Oh there's a dead body dead either. There wouldn't be enough left of the body for the police to identify dead.

[Rick912]

That is a difficult question to answer. My ex wife was raped before we were married but never told me about it for years later. She was always a tease and I think it was something that got out of control. Life goes on.

[bjones420]

Do not blame her. No girl wants to be raped. Report it to the authorities. I'd personally want to kill them.

[Sephohim]

I think you should be angry at the person who raped her?

[grega239]

If there's evidence that is undeniable then some1 will die... if it turns out she's lying then i would have to destroy her reputation same as she did to my firend

[ashwinikumar]

I will ensure that person gets punished and socially humiliated for his crime while complete secrecy is maintained about my girlfriend's identity

[R00KIE_GUY]

I would probably try to figure out if she's lying or not.

[Demiurge6]

Murder ! There will be murder! No I don't need anyone who rapes people close to me

[UsernameMadness]

I wouldn't blame her but I'd be angry as fuck with my friend/relative. It's the worst kind of betrayal. I'd probably encourage her to press charges.

[mark49572]

I would probably end up in jail for murder because I would not tolerate that from anybody on my girlfriend that is so wrong in so many ways

[DanielKaluuya]

She's most likely lying and is trying to cover her ass

[Anonymous]

As I beat the guy you raped and molested my first girlfriend as a kid within a inch of his life I think I would probably do the same

[thegr8lion]

I will stage a fake rape of his sister or girlfriend

[memyselfandiamhere]

I tell her to call the cops.

[Asker]

How helpful

[memyselfandiamhere]

I mean honestly, what else am I supposed to do.

If I go after this person, I might go to prison.

If I call the cops and she says nothing, they won't investigate.

If she doesn't stand up for herself, nothing will happen.

But ofc I would stay with her.
And try to let her do what she wants.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Both of these scenarios are fictional.

[Asker]

How?

[Wwwyzzerdd]

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[Wwwyzzerdd]

Help my imaginary girlfriend got raped and I don't know what to do

[Asker]

Your an idiot

[Wwwyzzerdd]

You're a master of the obvious

[eagle1951]

someone would get there ass kicked

[IdkSomethingRandom]

People would die.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like their problems to me.

[Bigboifun27]

Murder