What would you do if someone you knew raped your girlfriend?

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Guys if your girlfriend told you that she was raped by someone that you were closed to, how would you react to this? Like if it was a brother, cousin, uncle, best friend or even step-father. Someone that you are very close to and care about. Maybe someone that you felt you should be more loyal to than your girlfriend. Would you blame her or be angry with her? Would you leave her even though she could prove to you it was rape and not consensual? If anyone has ever experienced this. Please tell me how you felt and what you did about it.

Loganth · Accepted Answer

If someone you care about is hurt you will be upset with the person that has caused it. But in all cases if I like a girl and she gets raped my first priority is making her feel safe and help her. Not take revenge. Rape isn't a good thing so informing the police is a good thing. But for me personally my priority would be with the girl I like and making her feel better, if someone I cared about was the person that caused it I would cut off ties. No matter what some lines must not be crossed.

notallthere98 · Accepted Answer

I would side with my girlfriend. It wouldn't matter who'd done it. I know what it's like to be sexually abused and have people take my abuser's side. I would never do that to someone. It would be the same if a friend or family member of mine raped a stranger. I will always take the side of the victim

Angel90 · Accepted Answer

If I was a man I would be on her side and collect of the evidence that it is what happened and if it came out to be true I would fuck the man who did it and never would I have any sort of relations with this person... Noone would be messing up with my Girl

Aces_high · Answer

Call the police, the sooner that they can investigate the better chances of there being a favourable result. On top of that I would probably not talk to that person again and probably make a threat on their life and say in my testimony later I had a temporary mental breakdown due to the stress/ betrayal and was not in control of my own actions.

GingerGuy · Answer

I think I'd have to be in that situation to know. I couldn't imagine anyone I know doing this. Every guy would react differently. Obviously if they did, and proven they did (not just allegations) that would be the end of any relationship I had with them. The only way I'd be upset or mad with girlfriend is if she was lying about it and I knew this for certain. Are you in this situation? Wondering whether to tell your bf?

BigRayFromNC · Answer

If you have actual proof and evidence of this immediately contact the police or local law enforcement without any hesitation at all. The amount of unreported rapes in this Country is at alarming levels. Rape is usually a felony crime and if that individual is arrested and convicted of that rape they will spend a long time in a maximum security prison where they belong. As I said if you have actual proof and evidence pick up the phone and dial 911.

GrayWhi2 · Answer

First I will find out if this was true. And if this is true even if the guy is my father or brother I will first kidnapp him and tie him with a chair and take out his nails... burn his tounge.. break at least 20 teeth and finally I will carve the sentence "I am a raper" everywhere in his body and many tortures but I will keep him alive

winterfox10 · Answer

Well I was raped myself, so I would never blame her. But I’d ask her what she wanted me to do. If the rape was recent I would be angry and if it happened a while ago I would be sad.

TripleAce · Answer

I would think that person has some major issues that need to be resolved... something is wrong up there to make such a decision...

Rick912 · Answer

That is a difficult question to answer. My ex wife was raped before we were married but never told me about it for years later. She was always a tease and I think it was something that got out of control. Life goes on.

bjones420 · Answer

Do not blame her. No girl wants to be raped. Report it to the authorities. I'd personally want to kill them.

Sephohim · Answer

I think you should be angry at the person who raped her?

grega239 · Answer

If there's evidence that is undeniable then some1 will die... if it turns out she's lying then i would have to destroy her reputation same as she did to my firend

ashwinikumar · Answer

I will ensure that person gets punished and socially humiliated for his crime while complete secrecy is maintained about my girlfriend's identity

R00KIE_GUY · Answer

I would probably try to figure out if she's lying or not.

Demiurge6 · Answer

Murder ! There will be murder! No I don't need anyone who rapes people close to me

UsernameMadness · Answer

I wouldn't blame her but I'd be angry as fuck with my friend/relative. It's the worst kind of betrayal. I'd probably encourage her to press charges.

mark49572 · Answer

I would probably end up in jail for murder because I would not tolerate that from anybody on my girlfriend that is so wrong in so many ways

DanielKaluuya · Answer

She's most likely lying and is trying to cover her ass

Anonymous · Answer

As I beat the guy you raped and molested my first girlfriend as a kid within a inch of his life I think I would probably do the same

thegr8lion · Answer

I will stage a fake rape of his sister or girlfriend

memyselfandiamhere · Answer

I tell her to call the cops.

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Both of these scenarios are fictional.

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