I really really would appreciate some advice.
So. Let me lay down the basic info first.
I'm just out of a relationship. I was with my ex for almost 2 years. We broke up because she wasn't ready for a committed relationship. Its been about 2 weeks since the break up, and I've completely recovered. We had started to drift apart for about 3 months before the break up, so I was kinda ready for it. it still really hurt, but I've recovered quickly and now I'm interested in getting back into other girls.
and then there's this girl. She too is just out of a relationship, but she's taking it much harder than me, although her relationship was shorter than a year. Her break up was about a month ago, and she is still not ready to think about a starting a relationship with someone else.
My friend who is friends with this girl started talking to her about me, so we ended up talking. She's smart, funny, beautiful, fun, upbeat, and ridiculously hot. We started hanging out and we clicked pretty good. She likes me and I like her and I know that I want to be with this girl. But the problem is that I don't know how long it will be before she is ready for a relationship again. I want to wait for her to be ready. So I have three questions-
1. How long do you think it will take for her to be ready?
2. Should I wait that long since I'm so entirely attracted to her?
3. Is there anything I can do to ensure that I get to be her next boyfriend?
So. Let me lay down the basic info first.
I'm just out of a relationship. I was with my ex for almost 2 years. We broke up because she wasn't ready for a committed relationship. Its been about 2 weeks since the break up, and I've completely recovered. We had started to drift apart for about 3 months before the break up, so I was kinda ready for it. it still really hurt, but I've recovered quickly and now I'm interested in getting back into other girls.
and then there's this girl. She too is just out of a relationship, but she's taking it much harder than me, although her relationship was shorter than a year. Her break up was about a month ago, and she is still not ready to think about a starting a relationship with someone else.
My friend who is friends with this girl started talking to her about me, so we ended up talking. She's smart, funny, beautiful, fun, upbeat, and ridiculously hot. We started hanging out and we clicked pretty good. She likes me and I like her and I know that I want to be with this girl. But the problem is that I don't know how long it will be before she is ready for a relationship again. I want to wait for her to be ready. So I have three questions-
1. How long do you think it will take for her to be ready?
2. Should I wait that long since I'm so entirely attracted to her?
3. Is there anything I can do to ensure that I get to be her next boyfriend?
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