Reasons a girl suddenly loses interest?
Can you list some possible reasons why a girl would suddenly stop responding to your texts, after you've gone out on four dates? Physically we... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
You were too needy, it sounds like to me.
You never even kissed, after 4 dates. And you texted her throughout the week, firing compliments at her. Wrong wrong wrong... That's the sort of thing I'd expect from a teenager with his first ever girlfriend.
She probably decided that you were too needy, not manly enough, and not particularly interesting. So she's taking some space, and avoiding your daily SMS compliments and so on.
What Girls Said 2
It sounds to me like she decided she wasn't really interested in you after going on a few dates, or maybe she doesn't want a relationship period. She probably stopped contact because a lot of us girls are afraid of hurting the guys feelings. So instead of telling him that "we're just not that into him," we just stop talking to him, or come up with excuses for why we don't want to see him.
I disagree with what Belgie said. I'm a girl who gets scared off easily by needy guys, I like my space. And it sounds like you were giving her the right amount of attention to show you're interested without looking needy and clingy. A couple of messages or a phone call a day is perfectly fine. Just as long as you're not blowing up her phone 24/7.
I know it's harsh but...she's just not that into you! :-(
What Guys Said 3
Sorry to be the one to say this but she's just not that into you. Let her go. There are tons of girls out there.
You've got to kiss the girl sooner than four dates. Give her something to want.