My girlfriend says she doesn't want me to drink anymore because she doesn't like me when I drink!
My girlfriend says she doesn't want me to drink anymore because she doesn't like me when I drink! but she can drink all she wants. it seems a little... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
So... Does she not like you when you drink? Or does she not like you when she's had a few drinks?
If its option 1 consider trying to decide on a compromise. Sit down one night and drink with her and when she says you are getting obnoxious you know you should stop drinking one drink before whatever number you got to. Then propose that you be allowed to drink within that limit. If she says no she is being selfish and you can either point it out or dump her for it.
If its option 2 things are probably over between the two of you. People tend to lose their inhibitions when drinking not their opinions.
What Girls Said 6
Tell her that she is running you away by controlling you, and tell her that she is not being fair towards you. Try and talk to her before breaking up..
I wouldn't want my boyfriend to drink or smoke anything that is disgusting and it ruins ppls health I want my baby to be healthy...well anyways she is such a hypocrite
Either don't drink around her -tell her you're going for a drink with your friends and that either you'll come back when you're sober or stay at a friend's house if you're really drunk (if you live together that is), or choose her or drinking if you don't want to filter the crowd you drink around...
What's more important?
I'd say compromise. Ultimatums never work the way you want them to.
Leave her...it doesn't sound like she's a good fit for you.
I guess it depends on what your bad behavior is when you drink. Some people get batsh*t out of control.
What Guys Said 2
The question is, do you like HER when she drinks? And ask your other friends about your behavior while in "party mode". Maybe there is room for improvement. But if you and your girl can not come to a happy compromise, end the relationship on a good note. Move and and be just friends.
She's trying to control and change you, typical woman.