What types of girls are these. I want to avoid them!
Why do a lot of girls NEED attention so much? It almost makes me not want to date them?
What types of girls are these. I want to avoid them!
Hmm you say not all women but common means most found. So you just mean most women.
-_-
Some girls see flirting as socializing. It's fun.
^ Way better flirting with girls they can see it as a social thing.
Some girls like ego boosts.
Some have abandonment issues.
Some realize they're in a society where most men think that most women are manipulator users and only value their looks and want positive attention.
Some know guys value youth &beauty and need reassurance they have it.
Some know society values their youth & beauty more than men and need reassurance they have it.
Some are bored.
Some are playing a girl game .
^ flirt with as many games or get as many numbers
Most guys love attention too (any girl smiling/complimenting them will boost their ego) they just don't go after it due to rejection.
Most guys fear rejection so much they don't even go after the attention from the girls they want.
Let me just start off by saying that I'm not someone that likes having other people's attention. If there weren't guys at the club to flirt with girls wouldn't go. My point with that statement is that guys want the attention too because they want those girls to flirt with them. It's both guys and girls that want a lot of attention.
So they go to the club to do that? Where they know girls aren't really looking to connect too deeply? If that's the case, then the male species is dumber than I thought.
I'm not avoiding that point. I just think that some guys, just like some girls, only want the attention for the sake of attention.
And you get the information to make that assumption from where...?
I have had 19 informative years on this planet and the last year has been even more informative since I've gained more insight into the interactions between guys and girls at college.
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I think it's because they're either use to it, or they get an ego boost from it. The majority of girls have really low self esteem and they need someone there constantly telling them they look good or need constant attention to raise their self esteem. Girls like this haven't realized it's called SELF esteem, it comes from within themselves, no one else. At least this is what I think.
yeah I agree. Girls that make clubbing their life. I don't even feel like trying to date them. I know what goes on in clubs
Ya know I'm a girl and I want to know he answer to this too...I'm def not the type of girl that wants to get attention. Two of my friends are like that. One loves to be the center of attention so she's loud and does supid stuff just to get a guy to look at her. The other is just clingy to her boyfriend. She has to have his attention even when he's at college in a diffrent state!
I am actually like this and I know it stems from insecurity. I want to know that I am attractive and desirable. It feels good.
You just described them, and they are very easy to spot.
Uhmmm guys love female attention as well. Humans in general love attention from the sex they're attracted to. I'm pretty sure guys go to clubs to flirt with girls too. And if it pisses you off, then don't date girls like you said. Give boys a shot.
I didn't say all girls. I said THOSE types of girls.
Great question. I want answers too.
they're insecure
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