There's this guy at work who started showing interest in me at the beginning of the year. I never really noticed him before, but since then we started flirting (well mostly him since I was so shy back then) Later we exchanged numbers and text message-flirted a lot. So this went on for a couple of months, and even though I wasn't that shy anymore and I really wanted too see him, I never really dared.
See he's the kind of guy all girls like, he's so sweet and friendly with all the girls at work. Made me wonder if he was just playing with me. But then I know that he is a really nice guy and a little older too, so I don't think he would hurt anyone on purpose.
Anyway I finally went to see him one night, and well, I knew that after all the flirting, the waiting and all the dirty texting, we weren't really gonna talk. So a lot happened that night, but not all the fun stuff. The morning after I was a bit stiff, didn't know how to act. So he said he would call me that day or the day after. But he never did, it was always me texting him, and he was sweet as always but he wasn't the usual dirty self. I did everything to show him that I'm still into him, but he didn't seem to care much anymore. I mean at work he's like he always is. But I started to feel that maybe I annoyed him now, that I was too much.
So I stopped texting him, didn't go and talk to him at work as much as before. Thought that if he didn't seem to appreciate my attention, then I should just stop right? So I did for about a month (which felt like so very long since I'm used to talking to him every day) then I just needed to know, what happened, why he just stopped liking me now. I sent him a message asking him how he's doing and stuff. And I was prepared to ask him all about it, was so afraid of his answer, but then he didn't even answer that message! So I thought "there's my answer" he didn't even bother to answer, and he always answers.
But it's so confusing, he liked me a lot, or so it seemed, and then he just stopped? Why? Then sometimes he looks at me in a certain way, saying stuff, always teasing me, noticing that I don't talk to him that much anymore.but that's just me still hoping. I wish I knew why he don't like me anymore, so I can just forget all about him.
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It could be as simple as you being too young for a steady girl friend for him.depends what you mean by a 'little' older.or, more likely, he decided that the problems of a workplace relationship were too great even though you tempted him.
Most likely it is one of those above simple explanations. It's not that he doesn't like you, but you should probably plan on doing without him anyway.1