This is excluding the fact that she sometimes cancels our plans. Also, if we have a vague plan she'll just completely "forgot" about them saying "we'll see" when I try to remind her. We'll see is her way of killing my schedule, because 1) If I leave the time I had set aside for the date open it makes me to accomodating but 2) if I make other plans and by some miracle she does decide to take the date, I'm an a**hole.
I usually try to listen to her problems and offer advice or empathy, but I think she takes that as a license to chew me out for something other people are doing. She also trivializes my stress as if I had nothing but her in my life. Which she should me a priority, but I'm getting fed up really quickly.
Is there any way that I can confront her about this without looking too needy or that I want to break up?
I know she's had a bad relationship with her past boyfriend who cheated o her, but I feel as if I'm being punished for his actions. It's messed up.
sorry for any confusion. (welcome to my world)
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