So guys and girls do you prefer a party girl or the quiet, shy girl? Or would you prefer a balance between the two? a girl that like to drink on the weekends or a girl that spends her weekends with a controller?
Me and my sister were talk and were wondering which one is preferred. She's a party girl, I'm a stay home and game girl.
It's hard to answer this question because I always think girls that tend to like to party are hot, but I strongly dislike how they're so adamant about partying... It's like all they ever seem to want to do and if you don't, you're a loser. It's that immature "I'm cool, you're not" attitude that makes an attractive girl completely unattractive, for me.
But I do like a shy, more homely girl as long as she's cute. She can like to party a bit too, I don't care... given that I'm around the right people I like to let loose and have fun too, but don't let it freakin' take over your dating/social life... which SO many girls do...
Ideally I like a balance. But If I had to pick, I usually prefer the more innocent and quite types. I definitely don't like the party girl who wants to get drunk 7 nights a week.
I think part of this has to do with age. Being older and out of school, I want a girl who is similar to me in maturing and parting 7 days a week is not mature.
I also find there to be a correlation between this habit and a persons morals. The girl who parties every night is way more likely to cheat on me, or be an all around bad person (bitchy, no life goals, causes drama, etc.). Same reason I prefer not to meet a girl at a bar or club and much rather meet her through a mutual friend or at a place like a coffee shop, book store, work, etc. Just more likely she is genuine.
If anything, I would prefer the quieter one who wanted to go out occasionally. Not painfully shy that she didn't enjoy meeting with other people, but not always insistent on being the center of attention either. A balance is good.
I want the devil in bed, angel in public girl. You know, the girl who looks like she can't possibly have sinned in her gloriously pious life, yet indulges in every sacrilegious act that would leave a satanist blushing during sex?
I'm currently trying to be with a party girl right now, only problem is she's way into partying to be with me. I'm not sure how it's gonna work out or even what kind of girl she really is deep down. Still I can tell she has a good heart and that's enough for me to wanna be with her.
I definetely would prefer a quiet girl if she wasn't so much of a coward and show attraction as well and didn't leave me guessing all the time. Heeey at least party girls know what they want and are not afriad to get it, that's pretty hot to me.
I like the quiet, shy girl who isn't afraid to talk to me. If you're quiet/shy in public but you still talk to me when we're alone and we can have nice conversations learning about one another then that's awesome.