Some women get nervous around me when I approach them, some don't. The ones that don't are very obvious, but what about those girls that look nervous maybe scared around me?
So, is that a good thing when a girl seems nervous around you ?
It depends.
(1) Sometimes we tend to get a little nervous -- either breathless, fidgety, or clumsy (with words or actions) -- around a guy we like. We just don't know precisely what to do with our hands, how close or far away to stand, how long we can look at you before we're actually staring...
(2) Sometimes we get antsy because we aren't comfortable being around a guy who is repulsive to us. We try to make polite excuses, check our watch or phone a few times, etc., looking for a way to move along without being mean or nasty to the guy by saying, "Scram."
Depends on the girl, of course.
Speaking from personal experience. I am perfectly normal around guys I am friends with. The guy I have a huge crush on, I'm lucky if I speak 20 words in a two-hour conversation with him. He makes me very nervous.
Notice how the girls react around other people, if they are shy and appear nervous then it's just them. If not, you are making them nervous. Do they speak with you at all? If they are willing to speak with you that's a good sign.
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I know it's not answering your question, but when I have this happen to me, the girl is just stunned and won't say anything. It leaves me feeling absolutely dehumanized.
And I know it's not me, because I am not bad looking, or give the vibes of a psychopathic murderer.
On one occasion I accepted the rejection and then about a week later I smiled at the girl and she smiled back and blushed, gave all the signals that she actually liked me.
I told her to fuck off when she finally mustered the courage to approach me a couple of weeks after that happened.
Have comical chats about 'nothing' with her...light hearted banter. If she smiles, she likes you. if she raises her eyebrows, not good. Although, I have at times tried to resist someone I was into by being a bit stroppy, but eventually, it wore off. Funnily, the men that I've fallen hardest for were the ones who I hated upon first impressions. Goes to show that hate means more than indifference!
Play safe and let life pass you by in the form of many beautiful girls. When they are nervous, they like you, I know from experience. Make jokes (not directed at her), smile, talk calmly, and she will get more confident around you. Girls don't get scared around guys unless you approach them with a weapon. I assume you aren't doing that?... Right?...
1. She's attracted to you in some way
or
2. She's just a nervous person who's shy around strangers.
People don't get nervous around who they find unattractive or annoying, they just become dismissive.
1) interested - I’m absolutely awkward when I really like someone
2) uncomfortable about letting you down
3) not approached in a safe environment... It doesn’t matter how I would have been otherwise interested if there aren’t enough people around in a public space, it leaves concern as to who this stranger is approaching me - as I know nothing about them or their intent.
Usually, a girl gets nervous and intimidated around the guy she likes...I know I've been like that so many times, it's just that these girls are scared of making a fool of themselves in front of you and start to over think everything they do, hence the nervousness!
The ones that don't get nervous, either don't like you in that way or are just very confident girls wno are used to making the first move when it comes to a guy they like. Hope that helps:) Answer my question too if you can, please...Thanks. x
it depends..lol sometimes I get nervous when I am around my crush..but it depends on " the approach"
if you physically look intimidating , then maybe that's a "bad " type of nerves..lol
kidding aside/some girls are just naturally shy..
try being friends with them , then they'll get comfy and they'll talk more.. (:
just be patient..
I offered a coworker a cake and truth be told we don't really talk much these days, but I asked her if she wanted one and she started playing with her necklace and said no thank you I'm about to have lunch, I just ok all good, so I am not sure why she was nervous here to be honest.
it can go either way. Although from my experience, it can mean she is really nervous about how she looks, says things, very self conscious because she is worried about how you think of her,and she wants it to be in a positive light. If you're staring at her like you want to kill her, she'll be nervous in a different way.. like I said it depends, its very situational.
hmm..just don't think too much my dear (: if you try to be a good person just with everyone..gir;s will naturally gravitate toward you..if they don't like you as a person, then they are definitely not gonna like you as a "man/guy".. do you know what I mean?
have a good heart ...and good girls will like you
It can be a good thing. There are two different types of nervous or intimidated, there's the bad kind, & the good kind. The bad kind is when she's not scared of you, but rather doesn't know what to do without embarrassing herself, or something like that around you. Then there's the other kind which is when she's scared, and that can be bad. It's not really good when someone's scared of you unless you want them to be.
Some girls meet guys at their first sight, they will be nervous no matter who you are. I am also a little nervous if he is my senior or teacher etc. It not means they are sacred. My nervous comes from my respect to them.
It could be good or bad. It could be because she likes you and feels nervous around you or she could not be interested in feel uncomfortable and that could come across as nervousness.
Sounds like she likes you. Ask her out, if she says yes the nervous is because she likes you. If no its either because you scare her or creep her out. I'd go with she likes you though c:
Maybe. Yeah, a girl can be nervous/shy around someone she likes, but overall, if I'm nervous around someone, it's because they creep me out and I'm picking up a bad vibe.
Unless you are scary, which I assume you are not, is almost ALWAYS a sign that they are attracted to you ;)
It could be a good sign. It could mean she really likes you. If it goes on too long though, it could be bad. Make her feel comfortable.
I can think of three likely reasons:
1. She likes you
2. She doesn't like the way you stare at her all day
3. She can see the boner in your pants you can't control
Its not about you, never. Its about how they feel about themselves. Don't give a d*mn about nervous women they need to figure themselves out first
If you're walking towards them in a balaclava with some rope and a duct tape then I'd say no, it isn't a good thing.
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