Are guys attracted to shy and innocent girls?

[Daggersanctuary]

I have trouble speaking up and saying what's on my mind and I don't know how to show that I'm attracted to someone without creeping him out or just seeming completely uninterested...

[Anonymous]

I think I am intrigued by shy people in general. I respect them for not just blathering on about nothing, and while it might not be a surefire attraction, I would certainly want to get to know her to see what she is like and if we might be good together.

But aside from that, yes, I do think shy/innocent girls are attractive. Though I would ask what constitutes innocent? Is it some who doesn't have much sexual/relationship experience? For me, that does and also doesn't really come into how I perceive her.

[Daggersanctuary]

thank you so much. When I mean innocent, I mean not having a lot of sexual experience, and not knowing what to do or say when talking to a guy. Your advice helps a lot :)

[cmknoll3]

In short, generally, yes we are. But if you are a complete wall flower, never speak to us or in any way show interest at all, it's going to be hard to catch a guys attention. Sounds like you need to try to make friends with some guys and get comfortable with them first.

[Daggersanctuary]

thanks. I think I'll start by making more guy friends

[joystickhappy]

I happen to proffer shy girls considering I'm a shy guy myself it makes them seem more approachable to me. Plus I suppose that would mean we have shyness in common. I also find shyness cute too.

[Daggersanctuary]

Would you mind if I sent you a friend request then? :)

[Malcom_Reynolds]

I am, but they can be very unapproachable, not a good thing.

[Daggersanctuary]

why?

[Malcom_Reynolds]

I find sometimes they can look like they just want to be left alone.

[Daggersanctuary]

How can they look like they want people to talk to them?