You could start with some news you've just found out. You could start off with a random yet funny fact to break the ice and make her laugh. Or you could keep it plain and simple, using the simple "hello" but move onto more interesting topics. Usually, if you ask someone what they're doing, you can get a lot of interesting conversations just using their activity. So if she said she was listening to music, you could ask what song she's listening to, what music she likes overall, favorite band, worst band etc. You have to be creative and work off the information the other person has given you, even if it's a small question relating to something they said or have done. Don't respond with just a smiley or "okay" or "lol" because it kills the conversation and it's hard to save if after you've responded that way. Of course you can say "okay" and "lol" but follow it with a question or some kind of interesting input. :)
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you could try to talk to her about something that she likes, it is easier for shy girls to talk about things they are passionate about or that they like because they know a lot of things about the subject which makes it a comfortable topic of conversation
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try to be funny and keep a light conversation, talk about things you know she likes and earn her trust.
You could start with asking what's her opinion on something or suggest her a song to listenMake sure she enjoys text first. I hate it and guys wanting to text all the time is a deal breaker.
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End most of your texts with a "!".Talk about her interest.
Ask her what her favorite color is!
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