Top 7 Reasons Why I Love the World of Guys

[Triss]

A guy's world is unique! I am a girl and I really admire how they sometimes behave (though not always lol).

Here I go with some interesting facts about guys I've randomly heard and even tested. This is for guys in general cause i know that many people are gonna say "not all guys!" Yes that's true, not all guys but the majority, yes :) Also I'll try to make it short so the Take won't be annoying to read :)

7. Guys may be flirting all day but before they go to sleep and yet, they always think about the girl they truly care about

Isn't this just amazing? Every girl has a guy out there thinking about her at night, and that is really romantic. Yay!

6.Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile

"A simple smile can lead to a million little things."

It is said that a smile releases a lot of deep inside fabulous feelings. And I'm proud our smile can effect so much in a guy's heart.

5. Guys cry!!!

You guys can say no to this but we all know that is true. And crying doesn't show weakness at all; it just shows that you are human beings with feelings.

4. Guys love their moms

I believe guys love their moms because they know that she is the last female in the earth that would hurt them.

3. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

I've always tried to be a good listener not only with girls, but when it comes to guys I've noticed that they really don't need much advice. But the majority of them REALLY need someone who can listen to them. It feels like a support they need.

2. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”

And believe me that doesn't only apply to guys but even to girls. When we actually are mad and we tell someone to leave we honestly, deeply want them to stay.

1. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious about the relationship

When it comes to a serious relationship you can never 'beat' a guy in love. I've tried personally but it didn't work lol. They're in a deep world only a few can REALLY understand.

THANKS EVERYONE FOR READING THIS . HOPE YOU LIKED IT AND HERE'S TO THE GUYS ALL OVER THE WORLD:

[legs_n_sheets]

"1. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships"

You'd be the first girl to ever admit to this. Before someone calls me out like some have with you, men love pretty much unconditionally. Other than not getting sex or getting along with the girl, there's generally nothing else that will make a guy change their mind about a girl.

Turn the roles around, and think of how many things can affect a woman's love, it goes beyond sex and getting along.

[Triss]

So you agree or disagree with 1?

[legs_n_sheets]

I'm saying I agree, definitely.

[Triss]

That's cool 😊
I cannot beat my boyfriend when he says 'I love you more' lmao😂

[legs_n_sheets]

Guys definitely experience love very differently and more passionate than girls do, specially the younger they are. That's not to say you won't get hurt along the way by a guy, or that there aren't guys who play with women. But generally speaking, guys get easier attached to girls, it's a male trait and one girls shouldn't exploit but use it for making good/solid relationships. It's admirable that you recognize this trait, to be honest.

[Triss]

Agreed totally.
A guy in love is amazing

[Triss]

And yes ofc we can get hurt in the way but afterall if it's true love it always wins. We were born to hurt and to get hurt. They're mistakes and mistakes help us become better people 😊

[supernerd99]

men love more yeah. women take care of some needs. and somewhat love you too for sure.

[19magic]

Nice take, see the not crying thing is true for myself I so rarely cry and open up. I still think even now people will see me as a weak little girl if I cry. Except for cutting onions which is only a slight watering anyway, I generally only cry once or twice a year.

[Triss]

Hahahahah the onion thing was funny lol
But no. As for me crying doesn't show weakness at all but only shows how much you care about something and shows you have feelings

[19magic]

I knew people in class who got bullied, sometimes me included and they'd cry like two times a day because of it. Making them be even more of a bigger target. I know I used to think of them as crybabies. But nowadays I don't believe anyone is weak for crying in public, except myself so I'm kinda weird.

[SuperNovaRoyalty]

For some reason, I feel that if I cry at all I won't be taken seriously, and I always felt weak. I hate being not taken seriously. I feel that I need to be above it. And also my dad would get annoyed a lot if I cried (depends on the situation)

[19magic]

@SuperNovaRoyalty Yeah same, I remember when I was in yr 5 so 10 yr old. I broke my arm, I started a race tripped over a leg and landed awkwardly on my wrist (still managed to win 😎). But it bloody hurt and I didn't want to show any weakness so I made out it didn't hurt.
Another time I was 14/15 and hanging out with these guys, I told them I had a high pain tolerance. So this guy booted me two times in the same spot on my thigh, just so I can prove it. I forced myself to not limp, and the guys teased him saying he couldn't hurt a girl. And I got some respect cause I can take a hit and not cry about it like a little girl.
There are other times, but they're more personal.

[Only_Women_Bleed]

I'd say all of those are the majority except 2, which is wrong and the minority.

Unless the guy is an overemotional drama queen, what he says is what he means.

To all you future girlfriends, wives and lovers out there. If he says "leave me alone", leave him alone. Don't overthink what a man says. We are not you.

Overall, good take though. I really like #1 and like legs_n_sheets said, it's nice to see a woman recognize that.

[Triss]

Yea #2 was a mistake tho
And thanks 😊

[RedHood7]

This^
I'd like to directly congratulate you @Triss
This is very simple, yet rather accurate (except for #2)
I find it comforting and heartwarming that someone took the time in understanding and apreciating us. You're still just 16, but you'll turn out a great woman, Im sure of it.

[Triss]

@RedHood7 thank you very much 😊
I appreciate that

[Little-Hippie]

Yes however,

3. No, I want advice. Tell me everything you know. I literally wouldn't be talking to you in particular if I didn't.

2. If I say leave me alone, I mean that shit. I'd just politely put up with you if I wasn't 100% sure that you need to fuck off.

[johnny_hustle]

The only ones I don't necessarily agree with are 2 and 3. At least when it comes to me. 3 is a bit of both. 2 on the other hand, is just wrong. Again, at least when it comes to me. If I say leave me alone. That means, leave me alone. I'm usually good and have moved past whatever it was in an hour or so... So, please, do me a favor and leave me the hell alone when I say leave me alone. But other than that. Nice take.

[YourFutureEx]

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[Triss]

😉😉😉😉❤

[RainbowFanGirl]

You stole this from my question lmao

[YourFutureEx]

@RainbowFanGirl alexhughescartoons.co.uk/.../2006-09-02-Safe.jpg

[Triss]

you're a hackerrrr!!! lol

[YourFutureEx]

I'm keeping an eye on you all from behind the bushes
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[RainbowFanGirl]

😈 you stole it

[Triss]

I don't mind that 😜

[RainbowFanGirl]

Hahaha

[Unit1]

7. YES!!! This is very true!
6. Yes, indeed! :) <3
5. I almost always cry on the inside :( I can't man up for that.
3. Not really. Yes, I do like it when you listen and give me advises but you missed the most important and primary point of that: We opened up to you because we trust you!
2. Not applicable. My words hold meaning as they come.
1. YES!!! At least, I DO feel it :(

I love girls and women <3! I'd love to cuddle anytime with them! Lovey love.

[Unit1]

I also think about a particular girl every night :( and fall asleep in sadness.

[Kapakani]

Wow man Triss!! I wish every girl or at least the one I love thought like this. Man, wow. This is great.

And that little Wayne quote is a shocker haha, but true.

[Triss]

Hahahaha thanks man

[Redstang88]

Good take, not totally accurate though
1- Very true. That's why we can be hesitant to get attached, we're afraid of getting burned
2- Totally wrong
3- Not always. Sometimes we actually do want advice
4- That's assuming their mom is the last female in the earth that would hurt them, as you put it. Not a guarantee
5- Well, we do have feelings
6- Absolutely
7- True

[Carefuloutthere]

I've seen this list before a few times. Wasn't it from "things guys wish girls knew" or something?
It still always makes me smile :)

[Triss]

I read a lot before I wrote this and put some things from my personal experience

[Ephemera1]

My mom's the best dood.

Also if I ask you to leave me alone, please, leave me alone. Completely disagree with #2.

[Triss]

like i said not all guys dood :)

[Ephemera1]

Hmm I assume other guys share a similar opinion though

[Triss]

Well I see every guy is saying the same so yeah my bad. My mistake putting that to the list

[ParamountArmada]

and the "sweet girl" award goes to "triss" awesome take.

[Triss]

Awwww hahahaha thanks 😊❤

[Library]

Most of this is true for me but
6. This is true if I like the girl and she has a nice smile.
4. This isn't true for me at all. I hate my mom and I'm so jealous of guys who get along with their moms.

[IsraelJordan]

"1. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious about the relationship"
Lmao then how come i never win the "i love you more" battles?

[Triss]

Well my boyfriend always wins even tho I try hard 😅

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Nah guys don't have emotion, we are complete aliens, nope zero, count of zero thoughts or feels. We are simply robots. <3

[Triss]

No that's not true 😉❤

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Oh? how so?

[Triss]

You all have feelings
Deep feelings
Only the right girl knows how to dig 😊

[OrdinaryGentleman]

No! We don't need girls like that! Stop digging! turn back, it's a males only club here! We like the suffering!

[Triss]

OK...

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Yus... good.. good.

[lightbulb27]

when I say "leave me alone" I mean "leave me alone for a while", but yes you can try to talk to me, but if I say leave me along again I really mean it:)

[Flurr]

You did a good job! Though if a guy says leave him alone, he really does mean that.

[Triss]

Thanks and yes that resulted true

[flintlockwood]

thanks for making this lovely mytake. ANd yes a girls smile can stop the world for us. You girls are so awesome too. :)

[Triss]

Thank you 😊

[flintlockwood]

you're welcome :)

[Blueeyes81]

If I say leave me alone, I mean it. I need space to process everything. I definitely don't want to talk at that particular point in time. Other than that it's a good mytake.

[clarezero]

The last one makes no sense. So if a guy and a girl are both head over heels in love, but the girl feels the love *slightly* deeper, it automatically means the guy isn't serious?

[CancerianMan81]

things ain't always perfect

[Triss]

If a guy is in love , there's no stronger feelings. I gotta accept they love more than us females

[CancerianMan81]

the thing of it is you can't expect everything to be perfect all the time cause if you expect everything to be perfect all the time you will drive yourself nuts over it

[CancerianMan81]

cause I know I've been a perfectionist for along time and it doesn't work out the way you want it to be

[Vzvsvsv]

The last one is very much retarded

[zagor]

Nooo, when guys tell you to leave them alone they want you to leave them alone. Men handle grief and sadness differently than women.

[Galaxy21]

This take could easily be applicable to girls, i think the title is not adequate. Almost all of the list are girly things that girls do like - When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.” - If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
The third point is especially true fro females and not true fro guys at all. Guys do want a solution to their problems and not someone just listening