Do guys have an uncontrollable and intense attraction towards certain women?

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Ok this is going to sound conceited, i'm not honestly. I have no other way to put it, but my guy friend constantly looks at my body, looks at me up and down, it's all the time. He stares at my boobs a lot too.

 He doesn't care either when I catch him. He keeps doing it. When he was drunk one time he kept touching my ass and I told him off about it, and he hasn't done it since, but it's the point that he seems to have this uncontrollable attraction towards me. The things he does, it almost seems like "I need to have her" lol. This sounds really conceited but even my friends, said "Wow he is so attracted to you, it's seems intense" and I agree. So what makes guys act this way? Do guys have that uncontrollable attraction towards a female? If so why? Lol. Thank you!

man32 · Accepted Answer

The question itself is rhetorical to be honest. No wonder he is so attracted to u... its not a surprise and u shud not be. To answer to ur question is YES. A guy will be attracted to a specific woman irrevocably and he cnat take his eyes of her. But, if he truly loves her. He won't touch without her intent or permission. In this case u mentioned is unhealthy. Its better u dont encourage his advances. So he won't take advantage. Also, its upto U whether u like him or like what he is doing. Guys can be so attracted and she becomes automatic in his eye radar. He won't see anyone in the room when she is there... i have been in that position. But didn't touched. Its wrong

mujiDESTROYER · Accepted Answer

yes it happens if someone is as beautiful as u ha ha
but yes it happens to me also. i don't know is it love or infatuation but if i see a girl with big eyes, pretty face, good figure n last n the most important beautiful sexy lips i fall for her. i become crazy n i feel like she is made for me n i do things that girls call CRAZY. i can't control my emotions. May be that's a problem n cause troubles as i have got into a lot. but to be honest i like doing crazy things or a girl that i get attacted to.

Kris85 · Accepted Answer

I don't know but I have had it happen to me as well from a guy friend and he was even in a relationship too, he would always look into my eyes when he talked to me, really intense as he was always looking at my body. First thing he would look at when I would come in the room or say hi is my chest, and then my hips and stuff. Guys think they are so subtle about it but they are not. I know when a guy glances and checks me out and my friend was so obvious everytime.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. Sometimes its magnetic and they dont even realize it.

HandsomeRaj · Answer

1. It depends on how intense sort of a person that guy is
2. Yes I do have such an intense attraction to certain women
3. But I don't ogle at them and make them feel uncomfortable leave alone touch them inappropriately and disrespect them
4. Even if I can't get them out of my head, I am poised and in control in their presence, THAT unless, I am in any sort of physical & sexual relationship with her
5. Touching her sexually or ogling at her unabashedly when she's just an acquaintance or friend or even a stranger is absolutely disrespecting her and displays she's is nothing to me but an object of my desire for me to use as I please and similar such disparaging things.

BrianG123 · Answer

Uncontrollable is the wrong word. We can control it, but in certain times, we don't want to. I think the problem is that guys, in general, have trouble telling between playing hard to get and not interested. And if we think we have a chance, we're going to keep taking chances (and some guys will keep trying even if they know they don't have a chance).

If he's harassing you, be clear that nothing is going to happen. Otherwise, he'll get over it eventually on his own.

Shaggy5150 · Answer

Attraction, yes. Usually it goes to the extent he has by what he sees as you being interested. I am not saying you are, or that you are encouraging him, but he thinks you are, especially when he has been drinking. Inhibitions go down when inebriated. Just tell him to stop. Get away from him when he is drinking. Tell him when he is sober to knock it off or you two are done.
He is attracted and is looking for some way in.

Phoenix98 · Answer

No, no matter how attracted I am to someone I keep myself in check. Being attracted to someone is no exuse to drop basic manners and etiquette and act like a jerk.

CypherV · Answer

I have an intense attraction to certain women you are right, but it's never 'uncontrollable', I am not a Jack Russell.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yes i might be attracted to girl but I'm not going touch her it's not good for men who have trouble controlling their actions

martyfellow · Answer

I'm an incorrigible ass slapper, so I sympathize with the guy. Still, I try to use the wrist and really connect with the slap.. that's good manners!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes lol for my whole first year of college. I turned down so many women just cause they weren't her and I chased thin air cause now she's dating someone else. Guys get obsessed trust me I do at least.

ImNotNormal · Answer

I do but I don't do the things he does to you She never catches me staring at her haha

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

yes they do. its all preference and how that preference gets them hot instantly.

Chris011 · Answer

Yes. If she has a nice body and is cute then a guy most definitely will develop a strong attraction towards her. It's all purely lust.

genericname85 · Answer

i´d call it an uncontrollable attraction, if i have a crush on some girl but no specific type

cavmanier · Answer

I think he's just trying to sleep with you :)

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