Guys, do guys tell their friends about their crushes/who they think is cute?

[Anonymous]

Do guy friends talk about their crushes with each other? Or do they talk about the cute girl sitting across the room from them in class? or do you guys have no idea who your friend might be crushing on?
i think my crush might be talking about me with his friends but idk? They also give me weird looks like they are observing me sometimes?
Do guys just talk about sports and stuff haha or everything?

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Any one else?
looking for MHO!!!

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I got pretty divided answers. Interesting...

[GoodManDave]

It depends. I've made that mistake of telling people who aren't trustworthy in that department, and it's blwon up in my face - so, now, I tell my closest friends - those I can trust - and that's about it.

I might admit to being interested in someone, but I've learned to pretty much keep it to myself or make it VERY non specific. I won't say how I know her, or what her name is, or describe her to people I don't know that well.

I DO mention a girl I think is attractive. I was mentioning a friend who always seems to get dates with gorgeous women, but most likely mention that I'm not wanting to date her, I just think she's cool, or she's pretty.

[Asker]

Same here! i don't tell anyone about who i actually like.
only when im joking so if they run off and tell someone i can say "cmon guys i was OBVIOUSLY joking"

[1GuyOpinion]

I don't talk about who I have feeling for.

I definitely talk about who I think is cute/hot/sexy/bang-able/gorgeous/would-tap-dat/etc with my buddies.

[Asker]

Thanks for answering!

[Keyspirits]

So.. that makes anon cutie "bangable" 😋😋

[Asker]

huh?

[Anonymous]

I dont do it until someone does it, then I realize they are comfortable so I reciprocate by telling them. I currently like a girl who sits on the other side of my class, I do talk about her to my friend and when she goes up to the professor I check her out. I can't help it, I want a piece of that with a glass of milk haha I genuinely like this girl it hurts that I can't talk to her (even though I'm a social butterfly)

[Asker]

I'm in the same situation! My guy sits across the room and I just look at him when i can

[Opinion Owner]

I know how it feels :/ I talk to her sometimes but its just not enough for me to get her number or anything.

[Asker]

Yeah same here I've talked to him and he's said some things to try to tease me but not enough to just go up and talk to him randomly yknow?
maybe you should do that- tease her a bit :p

[Opinion Owner]

If she's anything like you, I can only assume she will be great ! I will try to appear a bit more interested. Good luck with your guy ;p

[oldanddecrepid]

Golden Rule... never tell your friends who your crush is...

1) It leaves you open to one of your loudmouth dumbass friends to embarrass you with it!

2) Your friends may start seeing what you see in her, and then it becomes a competition.

Not good! Only tell them after you are going out with her.

[Outofthegrey]

No. I don't tell anyone until I'm going to do something about it. Men thrive on competition, so you learn to not share what your feelings are about a girl if the other guy also knows her.

Or maybe I just have some highly misconstrued view of life, one of the two.

[Asker]

You don't talk about who has a nice body? Nothin?
Interesting

[Outofthegrey]

There's a big difference between wanting to have sex with a girl and liking her. We definitely talk about who we'd like to have sex with, we just don't talk about who we want to have more than sex with.

[Asker]

Ohhh i see

[mgalex]

talk with my friends about women all the time.
but I only talk about my crush/cute girls with my best friends.

it doesn't matter what girls talk, we just make something up and even joke around with eachother about it.

A friend of mine started dating a girl because I went to her and said my friend though she was hot. we were in a bar and we were checking out girls on the nearby tables.

[Asker]

It doesn't matter what girls talk? Huuuuuh?

[mgalex]

sorry, i didn't mean it like that.
I meant it in a situation where (just na exemple) the table across you and your friends is full of girls and they seem to be looking this way and seem to be talking about us guys sitting over here. so it becomes like a game of guess-what-they're-saying.

ofc girls opinions is one of the most important things for a man seeking a relatioship.

[Asker]

Oh lol no hard feelings I was just confused i didn't know what you meant :p

[Asker]

But I think he has said something about me to his friends because they look at me way too often and in a strange way

[mgalex]

hmm.. i see..
or maybe they just noticed you like him :)

[Asker]

I don't know. I dont really talk to him at all so I don't know how he would know lol.
like om mot obvious at all i hide it very well

[mgalex]

then it might be the other way around.
what if he has a crush on you and told his friends about it?

that happens sometimes.

[Asker]

Wellp thats why i asked this question haha!

[Anonymous]

We don't often have "crushes" we have girls we would like to have sex with and we often openly say to each other who and what we would do and see if our buddies agree.

For example if I see a girl at work who is new and attractive, me and my buddy (s) say things in private like "I bet she fucks like a..." or "I would love to tap that ass" and we usually agree back and forth.

or if there is a girl one of use thinks is doable, and the others disagree, then we mock him and laugh and say shit like "Aww man no way, you are fucked bro" and it becomes a joke. But we don't honestly care, we just give him a hard time for fun.

[Asker]

I mean girls you actually have feelings for

[Opinion Owner]

I never have feelings for girls unless I am already involved with them long term.
Girls across a room or ones that I know because of work or other situations I have zero feelings for.
Crushing is not something a lot of older guys do. It's more of a high school idea.

[DarkHumorRUs]

I talk about my crush a lot with my best friend, cause both of us are forever alone. My other good friends know about my crush but we never really talk about crushes. And yes we point out when we see a cute or hot chick.

The good thing about crushing on a coworker who goes to a different school is that I can select who I want to reveal information to and what information to reveal.

[Chris011]

Do I talk about girls with my buddies? Yeah, all the time. We talk about everything from the attractive girl we met that day from the Superbowl to the new movie we just saw.

[Asker]

Cool

[redza54]

I don't really tell me people who I like.
I mean I would tell them if they are cute/sexy but not if I'm really going for her
because I have history with telling people and they just start acting all stupid around her and some even starts flirting with them.

So yeah...

[Antizzl]

Guys talking about their crushes (the word crush is a girl term) is for the guys who dont get any play and have no game (i guess now its called swag and that sounds so pussy too) There are no crushes only girls you wanna get at. If my friends ever said to me "i have a big crush on this girl" i would laugh his ass into next week then i would kick his ass for sounding like such a pussy then go get at his "crush". and with all honesty i hope he would do the same for me. Never bring to your friends attention something he doesn't see yet never look or act like a pussy and keep your friends from doing the same thing. You didn't share feelings back in the day... hell we didn't even have them.

[Asker]

... of course you had feelings. You're human... unless

[Antizzl]

i answered the question.

[Asker]

okay. Wow you much not have many friends huh

[Cyhhgg]

Well, sociopaths don't have feelings.

Also, you're pretty much wrong on, well, all of this info. Lol

[Anonymous]

I did that once. One big mistake. that guy liked the same girl. Thing is, the guy and this other girl tried to get in between me and my crush. It worked for them. Can't believe how sad some people are.
Now I wouldn't talk with my guy friends or any friends to be honest, until after I tell the girl. Then if we get together, they would figure it out themselves.

[Asker]

Wow that's messed up

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, yes it is. Unfortunately I don't trust people anymore when it comes to certain subjects. I only discuss information that cannot harm me. "I pooped today" "I forgot to walk the dog" "weather is nice today". meaningless stuff.

[Asker]

Im sorry :/