Why do men act like they don't care?

[Anonymous]

Why do some guys act like they don't care about you?

[serp777]

It tends to make a girl more interested in you. Obviously trying really hard to get a girl fails epically. If you make it seem like you don't care, you're showing her that there are plenty of other options if you're not interested. it makes you seem more desirable, and more like a rare commodity. Its the opposite of needy, desperate, and annoying, which means its much more effective. It also makes you seem more mysterious which is helpful. Either way its simply an effective strategy to get laid.

[Asker]

So it's like he's playing a game

[serp777]

no its because nobody knows what women want, except that guys universally know they don't want the "nice" guy. The i dont care routine is simply the only strategy to deal with all the confusing and ambiguous signals that women give. It puts the ball back in the woman's court.

[Asker]

So will I be wrong for going off on him because of it

[cavmanier]

I imagine for many reasons. Like it's been said, many men have issues showing especially caring emotions apparently. Also I think some use this as a tool to try and gain leverage or control over the other person. Your question is very broad so it's hard to really know what you're specifically wanting to know.

[Asker]

Ya I guess you're right, he will not show his emotions for anything

[cavmanier]

Yeah *shrugs*

[RestlessYouth_]

Men have been raised to constantly try to avoid discussing/showing emotion. Sometimes they actually don't care, but mostly they just don't know how to show it

[Asker]

Yes and that's what I hate about men, especially the one I'm talking to. It's like he expect me to figure out his he feels.

[LemonEd]

Truth is a lot of the time there is no acting,
It just takes a sudden chance that we might lose something to make us realise we do care ;)

[Asker]

Oh ok so he probably lost feelings for m

[LemonEd]

It depends.. I don't know what kind of situation your in, like who it is u feel doesn't care, what's your relation with that person etc

[genericname85]

because some guys genuinely don´t care.

others might think it´s a form of being "manly"

also one can care too much so maybe this is why some actually care less.

[Asker]

So some put on a front and act like they don't care, but they really do care?

[genericname85]

yes, some do that. but they are immature or unexperienced or just douches.

[Asker]

Ok the one I'm dealing with is a douch

[genericname85]

well then cut the douche out of your life :D nobody likes a douche.

[Asker]

I'm cutting him off

[Anonymous]

Why do you think?

Men are supposed to be MANLY MEN. And MANLY MEN are so fucking MANLY that they don't even get SAD!
Or get too HAPPY
Or CONFUSED
Or UPSET
Or CARING (That one's for the women)

[cavmanier]

So manly they eat old spice and watch ESPN in between chopping wood with a karate chop.

[Opinion Owner]

All the while they are barbecuing a t-bone steak and brooding over something.

And holding an ax.

For no reason.

[cavmanier]

Barbecuing corn flakes for breakfast because we only cook with fire.

[Opinion Owner]

And if they aren't smokey, then something went wrong.

Because men only eat smokey flavored food.

Like beef jerky.
And pork jerky.
And salmon jerky.

[cavmanier]

Salmon sounds like some hippie food but I think you understand ;|

[cavmanier]

Shit. I meant bearded wink

; }

[Anonymous]

i dont even cry when someone dies. i laugh

peed on a coffin at a funeral once. got arrested hahaha

[Asker]

What that's disrespectful, what if someone did someone you love like that.

[Opinion Owner]

makes me horny tho

[Asker]

Ok I hear you

[Opinion Owner]

coffin looked shiny with jizz

[Anonymous]

cause we dont. i dont give half a molecule of a fuck about women cause they ain't worth it...

[Asker]

Haha I heart ypu

[Opinion Owner]

if you dont liver me its alright.

[Asker]

Lol I liver u

[Opinion Owner]

and now i hope your nonsensical stupidity helps you understand why we dont give a fuck. its obvious you are not a native English speaker, but still you are retarded.

[Asker]

I was just joking with you, calm down!

[Anonymous]

Caring is for girls and gays. Real men don't care.

[Asker]

Wait, what

[Opinion Owner]

What, wait

[EtherBot]

What?
Huh?

[Asker]

Never heard of this, there real men who care and shows it

[Opinion Owner]

Stop lying.