Why didn't he say bye to me just because I didn't have sex with him?

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I met this guy at the gym about 4 months ago. Initially I didn't want to give him my number, not because I wasn't attracted to him, but because I didn't want a guy to waste my time yet again by pretending to be nice at the start just to get what he wants..

anyway, he was very persistent so I thought maybe he does really like me. We only met 3 times.

right from the start there has been attraction between us. We can't seem to keep our hands off one another. ( I have self control, but each time he takes the lead and because I like him it's hard to keep him away) but I didn't want to kiss his lips till the third time I saw him because I wanted to make sure about my feelings for him before wasting my energy on him but the first time I just felt so emotional and was kissing his face saying I just wanted someone to love me. I hadn't seen a guy in 6 years because I felt like there's no point unless I feel something and it's real. He never believed me and seemed to not even believe that I'm a virgin. Last time I saw him he just wanted to have sex with me but he got to impatient and moody with me because I didn't want to. It's not even that I don't find him attractive but I just can't unless I know he cares for me and I've never done t before. I left the country and am back in England. And he didn't even want to meet me to say bye because he said he would only see me again if we had sex because he said 'You're very hot, u don't understand that'

i feel like by now I have feelings for him and I might return to the country in a couple of weeks for studies but anyway , does this mean he really doesn't care for me and only wanted sex? He told me before he wanted me to be his girlfriend but he always seemed busy and I felt like every time I saw him he just wanted to get physical , not that I didn't but I wanted more affection and to do other things too.

Why didn't he even meet me to say bye? Is he that angry I didn't have sex with him?
Why didn't he say bye to me just because I didn't have sex with him?
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