How do I tell if she is sincere?

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy and my girlfriend says she's in love with me and has never felt like this about anyone and wants me forever. I'm 17 years old btw. how do I tell if she is sincere about it? she says stuff like she whether we are together in the future depends on me because she will never break up with me.

[Anonymous]

Well, hmmm.. I know how you feel, you just want to know & know & know & yo keep finding other ways you want to know.. At least I do. lol.

I can't speak for her, or woman kind , but I can speak from what I have observed & for myself.. First of all you must be something if she feels that comfortable telling you that. kudos.

What she says is what she means, tho forever is different then she can imagine, but it sounds like she is ' in love ' with you.

I have fallen and love that quick & I don't fall easy, just twice in m life but it was intense, oh & once was when I was nine.:)

If she says she thinks only if you she does.. You can really TELL how someone feels. The what ifs & how does' are really fir when you do not know some one, or you are going thru some rough times.

Your situation should be transparent really.. Pay attention to how she looks in your eyes. If she seems at peace or in your eyes if she just lights up when she sees you & listens t yo, & wants you to listen to her.. I mean I really see no reason why she can't be in love..

Let me ask you something.. Are you in love with her?

How do YOU feel.. Can you think of certain behavior that you have around her, specially when you feel her most?

How do you express it, & how does she respond? Do you notice that she does similar things that you do?

A really good way to view others is to relate to them , so watch yourself.& the similarities, & dissimilarities... Men & woman are different, but nor so different after all. Not in essence & emotional level.. All that mars & venus stuff I a profit industry.. Your confusion makes some writers a lot of money. ^^

Think about how you act... Let me know what yo come up with. :-)

[Asker]

I am in love with her and can't imagine myself without her. this girl that liked me a lot wanted to do some stuff with me and most guys think she's pretty but I said no because I am really dedicated to my gf. I always listen carefully to her and and her mom said that she's a bit*h without me lol apparently she has googly eyes for me? I just love her so much and will never cheat on her and I am so comfortable around her that I am my exact self and so is she. around her I'm always romantic and loving

[Opinion Owner]

Well one if the major ways to tell if some one loves you is when yo guys 'fit'. If you feel that way about her, & you are not hear saying why is she doing this or that ten you feel her well Otherwise you would be complaining.. My point is is that if you feel her, &it's good I am sure it is pretty even since she is also saying such.

Is she usually not very nice or something?

[Asker]

Yah I don't doubt her love otherwise she wouldn't be with me. thanks for ur help

[Opinion Owner]

It's sweet.... I wonder w you were wondering. I mean were you REALLY doubting, or you just felt like stepping outside of certainty, to 'find' it. {Sometimes we get used to doubting things just to 'be safe' then we have to sort of kick ourselves back to normal, so we doubt SUPER amount, so that we HAVE to just realize how off we are, then we center...

Good Luck!

[Asker]

Well I haven't been able to see her the last week or two besides in school because its my senior year and I have a 3.0 gpa. so without seeing her outside of school, I just felt less loved and began to wander.

[Opinion Owner]

That is doubt & that is not bad - it keeps people out of danger, but rely more on facts & intuition, then demons .. You know?

[airiver]

First of all...please be real! Only Ozzy and Harriet met in their teens and stayed together...Kidding...But you get my gist... If you are wondering if she is sincere...tells me you are an aware man with a good head on his shoulders...and I think you have already answered your own question...Sorry to be so direct but...Teenage relationships are practice...I know what it feels like...I know that you want to believe everything...I know that you want the happily ever after...And perhaps it is...And perhaps it's not... Just saying..You're young...Don't try and grow up so fast... Sure it feels good to know that someone cares for us, so take it for that...and enjoy the ride...But mostly...enjoy being a kid becoming a man and don't put all your hopes in one basket,so to speak...I know I sound cynical... I'm sorry for that but I'm telling you the truth...And don't allow her to put everything on you...Kind of a weak, guilt sort of thing on her part... Best of luck sweety. Cheers

[Anonymous]

So, how long have yo known her? & She kissed you, without you kissing her first.. If she did that the you know she at least is direct, might just have been curious but at probably likes you.. If she kissed you , unless she is primiscuous, & does that with everyone, then she def, likes you .. As for love well, I think that everyone can 'fall in love' at first sight really, then you learn to 'like; the person. :-)

[Asker]

I met her on november 17 and I asked her out on the 21st. its has been over 2 months and She said she doesn't only love me but is in love with me and she said inlove to her means that she wants me forever and no other guy is on her mind. like I talk to her everynight before I she falls asleep and we do so much together. I just want to know how I can tell if her feelings are sincere

[Anonymous]

Well, does she do what she says in other respects.. I mean does she seem to be straight forward & honest with yo. When you guys met, & hooked up, was it based on games, or did you just kind of find each other?

Do you have reason to doubt her sincerity, or are you just trying to figure out if she knows herself?

[Asker]

I noticed her at school one day and added her on my space. then we started messaging by her saying do I kno you and I said no but I have noticed you a few times. so the next day at school, I run into her so we start hanging and I ask to see her after school and https://www.girlsaskguys.com/images/btn-subcom-dn.gifshe said sure. so we hang at the park and I get to kno her and then she kissed me after I walked her home. then I asked her out four days earlier because we both liked each other so much. she likes spending everyday with me.