Depends.. if he really means... love - or lust.
I have done it with women I have been very close to because I wanted to give them the experience that other men wouldn't. It was my dirtiest gift to my girlfriend. I knew they were curious and I figured.. why not!
In other cases I have done it because my girlfriend at the time was really too occupied with many guy "friends". My relationship felt unsteady and to give her the last taboo mean my last "hail mary" to keep her around.
I think I started to enjoy it too much actually. That it has become more of a staple in my sex life.
In either case if you dont feel that need to explore things sexually - tell him. NO, thats not my thing. I want you and you only. You want to get your jollies use a dildo as you back up and we can have fun that way... otherwise no forget it. Don't leave any ambiguity.
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Yes. Get out. One of the worst thing that can happen in a relationship is to be forced to do something you are not comfortable with. if he truly loves you, he will not subject you to something you don't want. I know in my relationship my guy is basically the dominant one which I love but if he ever said he wants to see me with other guys or me to see him with other girls, I'd be gone. You can have amazing sex and non-abusive love with a man that wants only you. Go find that man.
Awe I read everything! I think he idiot! Why the hell does he want that from you? look if you don't like that because i wouldn't than leave run!!! I think he has some strange fetish... yeah best to leave!!!
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