Why would he suddenly stop taking initiative?

[missann]

I have been talking to this guy for quite some time. Most of the time he would take the initiative to call or text me. Sometimes when I didn't hear from him, I will take the initiative. Somehow he had completely stop taking the initiative to talk to me. I am not sure if he was busy, he told me he was but I happen to see his FB and it was active.

I wonder what happen?

[Anonymous]

May be you should talk to him? but don't ask directly why he stops calling. Ask him how his life been and stuff. If his answers imply that he's been wanting to talk to you but haven't got a chance to do so. Then he's still interested in you but he just need time for something else that is more important right now. May be it's school. May be it's his family. But if his answers don't imply that there's anything like that. Then you should move on because he would've lost his interest in you already.

[missann]

He did say he miss me all these while. I just feel that sometimes words don't match with actions. If a guy really miss a girl, he would want to talk to her. I didn't feel anything like that.

[Opinion Owner]

I can see you're very worried. but take it easy, girl :)

Remember that a rational guy will not let a girl become his whole world, especially if he's not in a committed relationship with that girl, even if he really likes her. So I think he might really meant what he said. But there are also other things to take in account like what kind of guy he is or how long he has been that way and etc. You didn't give me much detail in the question :) But anyway, don't let him let you down baby ;)

[jevaunit1]

Stop it! leave the wonder to the fairy tales, maybe he is bizzy, maybe he just don't wanna talk to you, maybe, maybe , maybe, maybe I'll spout wings outta my @ss and fly over the grand canon (I can dream can't I) Look if you really wanted to know you would have asked him what's his deal by now, so just take it with a grain of salt and start talking to some of his FB friends that'll teach him...or you could just say f*** him and keep it moving...just a thought :)

[RideTheLightning]

Stop over thinking it or he might be checking how keen you are