What makes a girl different?

Most guys go through so many girls until one girl changes everything for them and they fall for her. What is it that makes her different then all of the other girls in the past?


Most Helpful Girl

  • I think guys never really fall for a girl completely unless a) he trusts her b) she meets his needs c) he is ready to settle down, whether he is concious of that or not.

    Because I've sure heard stories. One of my guy friends was dating a girl for 4 years, she wanted to settle down, he didn't. He said he loved her, but they just parted ways, never to speak again. NEVER SPEAKING AGAIN! (is that even loving somoone? I know it hurts but I wouldn't like to not speak to someone I love). I asked him what it means to be in love, he said I was a close understanding or connection. So what happened there? it just stops?

    Another guy friend just had random sex in bars or whatever came along, until he met some girl working in his store, and they starting to see each other, and one day she asked to move in with him and theyve been together ever since. And he is 'settled' into the relationship, he doesn't go to bars anymore or drinking and stuff. he's domesticated now. I asked him what men look for in a relationship. And he said it was obvious. He mentioned looking good, and being able to cook.

    I think you just have to happen to be the right thing at the right time for some of these men. Come to think of it, I wouldn't want to be with either of these friends, its so insulting.

    With some other kinds of men, its more just a connection you have it or dont. But men seem to explore their options more than women do. Women are more choosy, men arent. with some men, nearly anyone showing interest has a shot. And some of these relationships work. I have known people from high school who started dating a guy who was not so into them, but they have ended up together all these years, simply because it was the type of guy who doesn't bother to date around, or they learned to love each other.


What Guys Said 6

  • How they make me feel on the inside, all warm and fuzzy with butterflies! Personality plays a big part, little things that I think are cute but others don't. Honestly I could not explain it, but, things that attract me to a girl are confidence, sense of humor, personality and general morals and views on life. But, some girls just steal my heart and that dear I haven't a clue why! Yet ;)

  • she takes time to really get to know you and not just skim the surface looking to see if you survive her personal petty checklists. she's not a self absorbed b!tch. she can be trusted 100%.

    i know it sounds simple to find but its not. and what keeps being said about guys timing and they just fall for any old girl when they are ready to settle down, this is not true for every guy. for some of us, the whole settling down thing is depending on finding a decent girl.

  • She makes me feel like I can be myself without worry.

  • There are two items that I can think of and one of them was mentioned by Male Anon...yes timing is very important..when I was not ready to get married...well...I was not ready...as for the other item...sexual compatibility is extremely important...at least to me...and my wife had no problem with my needs...

  • Personality, the way she makes him feel. These are important aspects to find the right girl.

  • It's just timing for the kind of guys that go through many women, when the guy is ready for a relationship and starts craving more than just sex form women he decides to stay with the next one he dates that isn't bat sh*t crazy.


What Girls Said 3

  • I want to know. Great Q.

  • She's out of their league.