There is this guy who was in my class last semester. He would stare at me all the time. At first, I didn't really notice him, but then I started to because he was staring at me. It was flattering at first. I started liking him, but got really nervous when trying to stare back at him, and trying to smile at him, so I just never did. There was this one time when I gathered up some confidence and stared at him; we were both leaving class and I just stood up and stared at him. He stared back at me; I was the one that broke off the eye contact. I thought that was really weird. Then I found out he had a girlfriend.. yeah, bummer. I had found out from a friend that has him on facebook. He's really confusing though, because why would he stare at me when he has a girlfriend? There was even a time when he was outside the classroon with his gf, and just when I walked past him, he hugs her... I guess trying to tell me that he has a girlfriend or something... So, I stopped trying to stare at him and started to not look at him anymore and ignore his stares. But I do still felt him staring at me. Then christmas holiday came, so I took the whole vacation to get over him. Since I am in college, we have a new scheduele so I don't have any classes with him this semester. However, when I saw him in the halls, he was staring at me. I am so annoyed. He is still staring at me! I sometimes get the feeling he thinks I am the one doing it to him and he's always trying to reassure me he has a girlfriend (by hugging her when I am there, etc.) but then again, I'm not sure. Then why would he be staring at me still? It's getting a little out of hand; kind of annoying and freaky. It's not flattering anymore. I'm not sure what to do. Should I go up to him and ask him why he's staring at me all the time? Or should I just ignore it? It's been almost 4 months now, and he's still staring at me. I try to pretend I don't notice it, but I really do. Any help, suggestions, moral support, etc. would be greatly appreciated!
Sorry it's so long. I am trying to condense 4 months of info. in my message... and there's still more!
Sorry it's so long. I am trying to condense 4 months of info. in my message... and there's still more!
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omg! That happened to me to! The SAME exact thing! Except he was married! Can you believe that? I was so confused. and he was so cute to. I saw that he always stared at me 'n so at one piont I stared back at him and I had to break the eye contact because I thought it was wierd. then I overheard him say to one of the guys sitting next to him that he was married (it sounded like he didn't mean to say it which was funny). So I thought like woah this guy's married I should def not look at him watsoever as to not give him any ideas or lead him on. (was a shame because he really was very hot) But wow I so know what you mean. Its confusing!
Sorry I know that didn't help but I just thought I'd say what I said :)
No problem! Thanks for responding! It's reassuring to know that I am not the only one who has experienced a situtation like this.
Yeh I'm in the same situation-a guy that always stared at me went and got a girlfriend and still stares at me-at the mo I'm ignoring him so he knows I'm pissed off with him but I'm gonna start smiling at him soon-its really awkward between us at the moment and I'm angry with him because I feel like I've been lead on. Guys are really confusing lol
Glad to know there are other girls in a similar situtation! They really are! Good luck!
Get over him. Ignore him find someone or anything else more interesting than him. If he cared he would have made move.
He sees that you are attracted to he and is just using your attention to boost his ego.
Manipulating you. He's not into you just trying to pretend so that you make the first move and he act cool among his friends.
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