I know he's busy yes, but he's NEVER ONLINE?

[Anonymous]

so I'm pretty much just going to write out a I don't know a diary section, because I need some help and advice on this

for 6 months my ex and I have been talking ..he contacted me etc and he usually is the one contacting me..we talk online on chat

but now after new years he got a job as a coach for 2 soccer teams and plays on one himself..so I know he's busy yes

but he's NEVER ONLINE

i miss him so much,..its been 2 weeks no talking..doesn't he miss me? I don't want to be clingy etc , I don't text him or anything I just wait and wait and it HURTS so bad

cause I miss him and on TOP of all that I wonder if he is dating someone else maybe that's why he isn't online..

hes not a fcb person but we used to talk..but I guess he works now so he doesn't have time ?

advice please :(

[Anonymous]

You're having a one-sided relationship with your ex.

I'd say he's moved on and isn't looking back. I'd also say it's time for you to do the same.

[Asker]

ok I get your point

but if he's the one moving on than why is he the ONE who conntacts me

and wants to come and see me ? and tells me about hard things going on in his life?

im not the one running after him..now I'm curious of what has happened to him but no I'm not gonna go text him and ask where he's at etc..im just wondering

so no I'm not having one sided relationship.. :) thanks though

[Opinion Owner]

Convenient how you left those details out of your original question.

Regardless, if he's stopped leaning on you it's because he's found a new crutch (yes, you were just his crutch).