The reason he has not got back in contact with you is because he feels akward about what happend and is not sure how to act around you at the moment. He probably feels that it was a spur of the moment thing and is worried about hurting you because he only wants to be friends and nothing more.
Because of the hurt which you have been through he is probably really worried and not sure how to approach you about the subject and let you know how he feels. He also may not want to be more than friends because he is worried about messing up and loosing your friendship, if you go further and it does not work out then you loose a partner as well as a friend.
The best thing you can do is give him some space, don't contact or see him for a week or so. This gives him a chance to think things through and also a chance for you to think about how you feel and what you want. After this thinking session and space, message him and let him know that you understand if he wants to just be friends and you are happy to do that rather than loose him completly. After you have sent this meesage, do not make any more contact until he gets back to you and if he does not get back with you then you need to forget about him and move on because he clearly is not a good friend and you can do better than that. I know its hard but you can do it. Just spend time with your friends and keep your self busy and you will meet someone else.
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I am in the same position and it feels pretty crappy since I haven't had a chance to speak to him about it. I'm so confused too since he's one of those pretty mature type and I genuinely can't blame the booze either.
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