Should I get ear surgery?

[harrison102]

should i get ear surgery? 1 of my ears sticks out more i think i look stupid lol and girls may notice it and i think that is one of the reasons why they dont like me. do you think i should get it? and will girls care about my ears?

[grlwguymind]

Never get anything done unless for your own self esteem. I know this sounds super silly but one of my turn ons of physical appearance is unmatched ears! I just had to respond to this so you knew there will b people that may just love that about you... and thats a person you would want to be with. If anyone is not going to talk to you bc of your ears they are not worth YOUR time! You rock those ears!

[harrison102]

so its a good thing about my ears? i am doing it for me. no one else

[grlwguymind]

If you are doin it for yourself then feel free to do it but it sounds to me like u care about others view of you. I like uniqueness... so I dont see anything wrong with your ears. But like I said if that is what will personally make you happy then why did you even bother asking opinion?

[harrison102]

i really dont know , i think stupid sometimes. i feel no one will accept me for the way i am. and i dont like my ears :( i dont know what to do xx

[grlwguymind]

Ull be accepted and probably end up with a nicer girl then you would if someone only accepted you if you did fix your ears. Learn to love your difference... you never know who will see you more beautiful than you see yourself!

[electromagnetic]

I used to have the same problem because I have to completely opposite ears. I don't recommend the surgery unless you really think you need it. It's quite expensive. I had mine done in Seoul. But it does boost confidence.

I recommend seeing other options such as the tapping method before surgery.

[harrison102]

whats that?

[electromagnetic]

There's one called earbuddies and what they are are tapes that attach to the ear and back of ear to hold in place. You put them on at night. Google it. " earbuddies"

Another none invasive one is when doctors create curves on the ear to simulate cartilage. (Quite a good option)

Then there's the pin back method where they cut the back and pull back to the end of ear and stitch. (Very invasive but amazing. It's what I got)

[harrison102]

and over time my ears will not stick out? x

[electromagnetic]

I'm not sure about earbuddies.
However the pin back method is permanent as long as you don't accidentally rip the skin behind you ear.
The cartilage method just creates fold to hide dumbo ears. But it does create change. Do you research. There's a lot of options before you decide.

[harrison102]

i will when it come to it thank for your time xx

[523206720]

Nobody cares about the ears because the eyes, mouth, face, nose, height, weight, attitude, character, pay cheque and size are so much more important. I think less than 1% of woman will notice your ears.

[harrison102]

i know but its how i feel , i dont feel attractive at all

[countrygirl0101]

No girl should look at a guys ear and say they woudnt want to date them because of it. I have a friend that I've know since birth with a weird ear actually and he has had a lot of girlfriends.

[harrison102]

well i have had nothing and when i have my picture taken i look to the side all the time so my ear does not stick out in the pic

[countrygirl0101]

You will find the right girl soon. Just wait for one to come along. :)

[harrison102]

i am 24 i think i am very unattractive and having 1 of my ears sticking out i feel more unattractive xx

[snowangle]

While girls probably notice your ear, I guarantee that's not the reason they're not giving you attention. Getting surgery on it would be a waste of money.

[harrison102]

its how i feel :/ 1 ticks right out and it putts me off talking to girls. they might say hey you have big ears :/