You're white and you only date white. what do you think of other whites dating interracially? be anonymous and be honest?

[J1nnishere]

just wondering how the percieve each other.

[aye_shygirl]

I use to be really judgmental toward relationships of this sort, mainly because of my dad. Growing up he was strict about his views but I recently had an eye opener & realized that, everyone has a choice as to what they want to do with their life. They have every right to love who they wanna love!

Do you wanna know why?

Because if loving someone of a different race is wrong they will be the one to pay for it one day.. not you. What they choose as no effect on you, other than your eyes. You're eyes are so quick to judge the life's of others. But you yourself probably don't have your life together.

This is just my opinion.

[J1nnishere]

Ya I m just digging into a potential white supremacists mind and beliefs... so far people are hiding

[aye_shygirl]

Actually most people probably aren't hiding it. This is 2014, we've grown up around so many different races that have slowly intertwined so therefore we've learned to accept it. The older generations may not agree with biracial relationship simply because it wasn't usual during their childhood or younger years in life.

[J1nnishere]

true. my mom is ok with me dating my preferences

[BlackAthlete]

when people like your dad die, this planet will be a much better place. People from the era your dad was born in are bad DNA.

[J1nnishere]

talking to me? my dads fine with anyone. dont talk about my family.

[aye_shygirl]

Yeaa my mom is the same as yours. & I know you ain't talking crap about my dad. Just so he respects other races, just doesn't believe in them dating & all the other stuff.

[J1nnishere]

also, @blackathlete , its not DNA but conditioning. people back then didn't mingle as much due to many factors.

[BlackAthlete]

Yea, peope from that era are just stupid. People in my family 50+ fit that category. Just a bad generation of human beings that we need to get rid of.

[Hidden_P]

I honestly don't care.

Personally, I've never been with a non-white because I'm mostly attracted to whites. But I have coloured friends and think some of them are beautiful! Some of them are flat out phwoar.
It's up to the person really. A person is a person, the colour of their skin doesn't change them.

I've grown up in a very white-area community so dating an interracial person is more of a city thing. But it's not like if it happened here there would be the KKK knocking. I think that's the main reason I've only dated whites. But I have only ever dated 2 people, so let's not be too judgmental here.

[creativeusername101]

are you from the south?

[Hidden_P]

@creativeusername101, no

[creativeusername101]

oh, I only asked because usually you only find southern country people who still refer to black/brown people as "coloured".

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I really don't care what other people do. I guess I'm too self-centered, but if it doesn't affect me directly I don't give a shit.

[TheYellowBear]

Amen.

[Anonymous]

I condemn this behavior.

[AshleyMD]

Why? There's nothing wrong happening, people can date whoever they want.

[J1nnishere]

by the way, i pick whoever for MH when i get the reminder to pick one. @AshleyMD and i dont agree at all with @anonymous

[kangy]

u r close minded

[J1nnishere]

the anonymous? i know...

[BertMacklinFBI]

it doesn't bother me in the slightest.

[J1nnishere]

You r da chosen 1 of gag

[aoifeislovable]

We'll I've only dated white guys so far but that dosent mean I wouldn't date a guy from a different ethnic group in the future... I think it's proof that as a society were developing when I see whites with blacks/browns ect. And it makes me happy :):):)

[J1nnishere]

its good to see for sure.

[cavmanier]

I'm white but I like different races too :)

I think as long as the people are happy that's all that matters. Asian white, Asian black. White black. It doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

Black women and white males have the lowest divorce rate. BUT, white female and black males have the highest. Given that black men also don't generally marry the mom of their children (72% of black babies are born to single moms) I think a white woman black male relationship means property and hardship for the white woman and their baby. So I think it generally ends with a poor single mom and baby which is not good for anyone. Bad idea.

[Opinion Owner]

Poverty and hardship for the white woman and baby.

[theville]

i am black and dont date out of my race because i LOVE my culture/race LOVE black males - and their skin color, the resonance of their voices, their style, etc LOVE THEM and most are GREAT in bed - i am VERY much into my culture -- so it works BETTER - i even DONT prefer other black ethicities like Haitian or other caribean black men because they are DIFFERENT still from American black males..

[TheYellowBear]

Evidently you can't read. :')

[Anonymous]

I use to think I wasn't all that attracted to black guys because I'm a white female, but now since a black guy has touched me emotionally, I can't shy away a bit :) Once you get to know someone and you really adore their personality, you automatically learn to be attracted to them regardless of what their skin color is. I don't give a care in the world now what the race if my partner is. I get where the people who only date their own race are coming from because I use to be just like them, but don't be afraid to try it out if a different raced person comes your way.

[creativeusername101]

that's beautiful.

[Anonymous]

im not racist so i dont mind it at all. the only reason i only date Caucasians is because im just not attracted to other races. i can't explain it. i sometimes think theyre good looking, but im not attracted to them, so i have no problem with interracial dating

[J1nnishere]

you do. your reason being is you're not attracted to them. i dont know, i thought if you felt someone was good looking, you're attracted to them? aren't they the same? maybe you're just not use to them so uncomfortable. i personally only like asians, white and some latinas if theyre not trashy.

[J1nnishere]

so i totally get not being attracted to all the races

[Souma95]

Perfectly fine! My parents are an interracial couple. Besides the children always end up gorgeous like myself (jk) ;p But seriously...

[J1nnishere]

i m all for mixed kids

[Souma95]

Yeah, seriously! I've got a little sister that's got like this olive skin, yet she's a redhead (with curly hair), with freckles and these super light brown eyes. Absolutely gorgeous! I wish I could look so exotic lol!

[dontBeJel-BeReem]

Well I'm black, I dont have a single interest at all in black people and don't think I ever will date a black person, only ever fancied white guys... And starting to find a liking for Asian guys... They're really cute! But I prefer white guys overall

[musicbrain5]

I actually don't care. It doesn't bother me one bit if other white people want to date interracially. Sure, it bothers the racists among us, but those people are ignorant anyways so it's best to ignore them.

[Rcjh1987]

They make adorable babies!!! I have no problems with it

[J1nnishere]

they do=)

[bubble_tea]

The really interesting question would be what those who said 'they don't care, because it's not their business' would say when their sons/daughters/single mom/single dad bring home a bf/gf from another race.

[AshleyMD]

I would hope they would say race doesn't matter. I personally don't care who anyone dates or marries. I am white but I do not find white men attractive. I want my future kid/s to date and marry whoever they like, I am indifferent about race for other people.

[steveguitar]

honestly who cares. most people that are white and date white, are actually likely to be interracial anyways. so it doesn't matter, let people be who they are and be with who they want to be with.

[bubbiexo]

I really don't care. Other people can do whatever they want- it literally has nothing to do with me.

[J1nnishere]

sounds like the right answer but people have opinions and judge all the time to understand. i guess i want to hear the shit that people won't say

[bombamboum]

I don't have a single problem with interracial relationships.

[J1nnishere]

have you dated interracially?

[bombamboum]

Only my boyfriend and he's biracial.

[J1nnishere]

oh ok.

[Red_Dragon]

I hate "racial preferences". I just don't understand them. I really don't.

[J1nnishere]

i do, i have prefernces and level of attraction

[cavmanier]

I think it's because many can be more attracted to different features or looks that are more common with certain races. I know it can be a lot more complicated than that though with socially influenced perceptions of races.

[Red_Dragon]

Well hey man. Do you.

[Red_Dragon]

@cavmanier Is the part of my brain that says what race is attractive retarded? LOL. I just don't get it.

[cavmanier]

No there's nothing wrong with having no preference. A lot of people will notice preferences over their lives though I think. Attraction is so interesting.

[Red_Dragon]

@cavmanier Well I had preferences I think being younger. Like I was more into busty girls probably. Now I really don't have a preference. For some reason I don't imagine that changing.

[cavmanier]

Nothing wrong with that man. My preferences changed a little, but I think over the past few years especially I've really paid attention and questioned it and I've found what I really like. I do think part of my attraction has been influenced from circumstances, specifically a certain person that I've really liked. Also I don't watch TV so I think I've noticed losing a lot of that influence.

[J1nnishere]

It's not retarded. Caucasianoid features are the standard of beauty. This is why white hooked are the most expensive then Latinas then Orientals and brown blacks. Like 95 percent of the world follows this structure. To his own though. Whatever rght

[Red_Dragon]

Latin is still white and I didn't say you were retarded I said the part of MY brain that says what is attracted must be retarded because I like all races. Caucasianoid is NOT the standard of beauty in my eyes. I don't give a fuck what the world follows. I'm my own person. Not a sheep.

[J1nnishere]

Hey i know u didn't say that. Why I said "its" not retarded. Your part of brain lol. That's fine. I honestly think I'll still be attracted to white Asian and lighter colored skinned. Say there was no TV and no western influence and people influence. I m pretty fair skinned. plus, its natural to be attracted to light colorful patterns. It'd all good

[meatballs21]

I think people can date whoever they want, regardless of colour.

[Anonymous]

Im white but to be honest, Asians are the cutest by far, especially japanese and koreans. I m not saying I would not date white girl, but if I had to choose between a white and an asian, I would choose the Asian one

[Kris85]

What other people do and who they date is of no importance to me. I really could care less

[J1nnishere]

i mean this answer seems to be the right and wise one but there are reasons why one wouldn't date a foreigne and one might think the other is "insert negative word"

[AshleyMD]

dating a foreigner and dating someone of a different race who isn't a foreigner is first two different things since the different race has the same culture as you where as the foreigner has a different culture. But that shouldn't matter either, because a person has rights and they don't need some xenophobic person's 'opinion'. @asker

[J1nnishere]

true.. just like i m Canadian who dates other Canadians whether white or hispanic

[been_waiting]

I don't have a strong racial preference one way or the other and I'm white. Idgaf if other people do pr not.

[been_waiting]

I don't understand being against OTHER PEOPLE'S love life. Its their life. Saying you're against a man dating a man is fucking dumb as shit because it isn't your life. You think a gay person should suppress their desires to suit your sensitivities? No. Same goes for interacial couples