WWhy do I feel this way? How do I grow a better person?

[fkingking7]

I am very confident. in my self, also i have friends and i talk and laugh, but the problem is when sometimes i talk to people, i think that they dont wanna talk back and aren't interested, even when i like a girl and i want to talk to her, i feel like she won't even even care and when i ask her out, she will get bored and i start to think "why is she spending time withe? Im not special" For example; i saw a guy in school from The same country, andwe talked and the day after i saw him again and talked, were not really friends, but i always think they aren't interested and want to get this over with... what i want is i wanna be confident in my self and be a leader and think i am popular... even of i am confident

[Anonymous]

You have to speak about topics that are mutually relatable, and your delivery should be clear and personal. If you talk about jargon and sound fake or bland, then yes nobody cares and they aren't interested. This takes practice. If you never try, you'll never succeed.

[fkingking7]

Whats jargon? And what do u mean?

[Opinion Owner]

I was very clear with what I meant. You need to be resourceful.

[Ulyss]

To grow a better person just cut a mans genitals and plant them in some good soil and keep it away from salt

[fkingking7]

What?