Are you the person who's always like the odd one in a group (doesn't fit in or the ugly one)?

[snackeyg]

Hmm If you don't get what I'm saying think Squid from Rocket Power. And if you don't get that example then I don't know what to say. Anyway I always feel I'm the odd person in the group. I know for a fact I'm the ugly one all the time(there's always one) but it kinda sucks feeling like you don't fit in with a group all the time.

I feel like that all the time

I feel like that sometimes

I rarely feel like that

I never feel like that

Other/Want to see the answers/Whatever

[NerdyJock]

I feel that ways some times, all of my friends are out going and I'm more quite and reserved, but then when we actually go out I don't worry to much, sometimes the girls look at me and sometimes they look at them. I just take it as either I'm what that certain girl prefers or one of my friends fit her list. If you want to be the great good looking guy in the group then either work out your problems or get ugly friends, usually when a girl (even a guy) is looking into a group they see the best looking person which might not actually be good looking, they just look good in comparison. They did a thing about it on "How I met your Mother" it's called the cheerleader effect. And I get your squid refrence, I haven't seen rocket power in forever, oh the childhood memories

[Brando]

Sometimes I feel like I stand out a little bit, but who doesn't at times? What I do is break out a natural born gift of mine: my ability to be blunt. (Thought I was going to say something else? lol) I'll just call the situation like I see it. "Well, you guys sure are being weird right now. What's up with that?" Then if they say that I'm the one being weird, then we just got a whole new conversation started. Problem solved.

[Camilus]

When I was younger back in high school I hung out with some of the most ...I guess I want to say "popular" but to me that sounds like something a teeny bopper girl would say, but anyways...out of that group I sometimes felt like the odd man out because I wasn't as wild as they were, but now I don't feel that way because I'm a grown ass man and I get in where I fit in.

[Universe]

It depends on what group I'm in.

I can't really say I have a "group" of friends anymore, more like just a bunch of individual ones in many places. Back in high school I hung out with a bunch of other weird people so I fit right in perfectly.

Though I sort of felt like the odd one sometimes because I had (actually I still have) issues speaking up...I was the only one who would rather just sit back and observe. So...sort of odd.

Now, if it was a question on whether I feel like the odd one in society as a whole (a really, really big group, right?), then I would totally say yes.

Imma be doing E because that "whatever" made me lol.

[peace-love-couture]

I understand what you're saying,but I don't necessarily feel like the odd one.The only difference would be that I'm only part Hispanic and my friends are all Hispanic(full) and make black jokes,but at the end of the day they get asshurt when I make Mexican jokes(Wetbacks) anyhoo.

Sometimes the feelings aren't reality.You may feel a certain way,but it may not be true.There could be someone who is ugly in your group,so you can't really determine that seeing as how we tend to be our worst critics.

Find some new friends,friends that you fit in with

[snackeyg]

Well I don't really have friends right now. This just popped in my head because of a question on here about who's the cutest in a group of girls. It reminded me of how I always feel like the odd man out. But yeah you're right I might not be the ugly one but I wouldn't know because I've never been told otherwise.

[bjs09]

I've never felt a need to fit in with anyone but I've always been the fat, funny girl in my group of girl friends and never the pretty girl. It wouldn't matter how pretty I was, I just have hot friend syndrome - all my friends are outrageously hot and outshine me. When I was younger I felt pretty outnumbered being the only dark kid for miles (my father is portugeuse and I live in a white community) but as I got older It didn't bother me so much anymore. I think you just have to be comfortable with who you are - even if it is the outcast, and then other people will be comfortable with it too.

[ElmoxLuvsxYew]

sometimes I stand out in my group, but its never a bad thing it actually usually gets my friends attention even more! I mean sometimes its a good thing to stand out dude.

do they tease you or anything? because maybe its just the stereotype/kind of people youve been hanging around. everyone fits in somewhere maybe you just need to look for people you have more things in common with

[LeftLegLefty]

With my original group of friends in high school, we were all kind of odd, hence why we were friends. We all had a unique niche to our oddity though which is what brought us together. But now that I'm separated from them in college, yeah I know what you mean. I think finding a group I was in was one in a million, really.

[doctorwhofan23]

I know how you feel I can't even talk to a girl to say hi.

[snackeyg]

What's talking to girls have to do with this? lol I'm confused.

[peace-love-couture]

That was random as hell

Maybe he means his other friends can but he can't

[doctorwhofan23]

All the other guys can do it so easily and I feel like I lack the looks and everything to do it. I just don't fit and if you know what I mean I can't really relate with the other guys.

[snackeyg]

Yeah OK now it makes sense. At first I was like wtf is he talking about.

[Anonymous]

You're not ugly.. Your a lazy complaining bitch. GTF into a gym and get a haircut. Your afro looks sh*t.

-This is my encouraging you. Good luck.

[peace-love-couture]

Wow...I guess guys need a different type of encouragement?

[snackeyg]

Haha That won't work on me. I'm not motivated by negativity.

[snackeyg]

And my hair is the only compliment I ever get. It's short right now but I'm growing it back out.