Do guys mind if you are a little chubby?

[jayleetaylors]

I'm 5'4" and I weigh 160 pounds. I carry a few extra pounds on the stomach and thighs. I'm not fat but does being a little chubby turn you off?

[Anonymous]

yea, you're fat .. lose weight.

for your height, you should weigh about 125lbs.

5'0'' = 105lbs

add 5lbs for every inch

so 5'4" = 125

and don't say this doesn't work because I'm 5'8" and weigh 145, as I should, and I look great. thin but curvy at the right spots.

just work out and focus on problem areas.

its possible, just look at the mtv show "i used to be fat" .. this girl lost 90 lbs in 100 days so you can definitely lose 35lbs in no time =)

OH AND PEOPLE! ... don't like to her, she's fat and guys don't like fat chicks

[Opinion Owner]

don't LIE to her, not like lol

[Prettygurl12]

That last comment isn't true and you know it. Most people these days aren't at their ideal weights and they still have boyfriends/girlfriends who love them. Just because you're at your 'ideal' weight and probably have guys who like you, doesn't mean ALL guys everywhere will think you're all that. There are guys out there that like all different body shapes when it comes to their women.

[Southern_Belle]

Actually if you want to give correct information based on what is medically healthy, her healthy weight is between 116 and 145lbs. If you are what you think is your ideal weight and guys like you, that is great. You are using your situation to determine what you believe to be the "facts", which is untrue. They are just your opinions. There are plenty of guys who actually prefer heavier women.

[Southern_Belle]

According to healthy weight charts your healthy weight is between 116-145lbs, of course it also depends on your bone structure. A person with a thin frame will weight less than someone with a larger frame, but both can be healthy.

Will guys mind? Some will and some won't. If you are worried about it, lose weight (for yourself and your health). Guys prefer all different types of girls and you can't please all of them, so be happy with yourself first and find the right guy for you.

[shulaaxo0]

Don't worry I am 5'2" Ned I way 130 I have extra pounds on my stomach. My boyfriend dose make jokes about it but just to get me mad and then he says that he loves mi just how I am. Don't worry you don't sound fat to me you are curvy :)and don't worry who ever loves you would love you just how you are !

[jayleetaylors]

to: shulaaxo0- thank you very much hun! I like your answer a lot because you aren't calling me fat or obsessed. I love how people can relate to my problems :)

[shulaaxo0]

awwww thannx and pluss you don't sound fat every one that answerd this question calling you fat its becuase they care about just looks not what's inside witch really don't count. I don't think am chubby in fact guys think am cute with the extra pounds on my belly; all of my boyfriends never called mi fat... don't lisen to any one that calls you fat! they are just stupiied

[jayleetaylors]

tehe thanx! that's very sweet and it really boosts my self esteem lol :)

[shulaaxo0]

no proplem lol just keep your head up :)

[Levin]

Yes chubbiness turns me off. It won't stop me loving you, I'll just want to f*** you a lot less...

My view is that you should be the correct weight for your height, ie the healthy weight. This is dependent on your frame, if you're bigger boned it'll be more than those who have naturally thin frames. Do it for yourself rather than any potential partners, and don't make excuses for being a slob.

[Alex93]

the answer to that should be no but now adays people are obsessed with there body's.I personally don't care, as long as she's not like 200 pds that's where it gets bad. But just because your a little overweight doesn't mean anything, there are plenty of guys who are overweight too & will go for that.

[grosa94]

There's a man for everything. Fat, thin, chubby, and everything inbetween. Mostly, I think people care about looks first, but personality most. There will be loads of guys who will love you for who you are.

[ThatScottishBloke]

Nah, to use a crude yet succint quote from a friend of mine "Nothing wrong with a girl with meat on her bones"

[ His girlfriend didn't appreciate the comment ;) ]

[James191]

oh no, your size sounds very attractive to me actually. I don't like the fatty's but I like girls with bigish thighs and what not. you sound pretty

[peace-love-couture]

Yes guys mind.5'4 and 160 lbs is overweight,try to lose about 20 lbs and you should be good.Being overweight is a choice

[rgtsc01]

Nope. Really depends on the person inside.

[Anonymous]

Yes very much so. Please loose weight =)