Do guys accept girls who are very overweight?

[porkchop222]

I'm 18 years old and I've never had a relationship with a guy. I feel like it's because I'm too overweight. I have one very close guy friend that I like a lot but we can never move to the next level. Most guys will say that I'm the most sweet girl they have ever known. So why haven't I got a relationship yet? Guys, would you ever go out with a girl who is overweight if you are emotionally attracted to her? If not, how do you like yout girlfriends to look physically? Does physicall attraction play a big role when it comes to looking for a girl?

[sexwiseman]

Sweetness only goes so far, unfortunately.

And what do you mean by overweight?

I have gone out with chubbier girls, but I couldn't stand their whining about their weight, or their bitching about the thinner girls, so I stopped dating the chubbier girls cause the bottom line was this; if I was going out with them, then obviously I didn't care about their weight; however, they made it such big deal that I got tired of listening to their whining. If they whined so much, they might as well go exercise and do something about their fatness. Of course, they chose not to, so I figured, best not to date chubby/overweight women.

Physical attraction always plays a role. And every person has a different taste. If you don't like your weight then maybe do something about it. HOwever, there are guys out there that love the overweight women so maybe you just need to find these guys, which of course, I don't know where they can be found, but they are out there.

[raz0rblastz]

physical attraction does in fact play a big role.i'm sorry to say this but guys are visual creatures and they only take notice of girls that catch their eyes and then they start to play more attention.however this is quite clear that different guys have different perception when it comes to physical attractiveness.some guys like their gfs thin and some jus well-rounded and healthy looking.however,this does not mean that overweight girls are left out!here are some tips that should help you out

1. dress up properly and appropriately (fashion plays a big part.guys are attracted to fashionable girls)

2. be fun and out-going, adventureous (guys love sporty girls)

3. be sensitive to the other party (guys seem more attracted to girls whom they can talk to serious stuff)

4. don't act like a spoiled brat(guys HATE such girls)

5. best still.be yourself and let nature take its course

[glitzy87]

I think it's more important to be HEALTHY rather than skinny or obese. It is unfortunate to say, but physical attraction does play a role in any relationship. But beauty is also in the eye of the beholder. From the guys I've talked with most don't mind if you've got a little 'junk in the trunk', but what they admire more is that you are making an effort to be healthier. And being sweet isn't necessarily a bad thing. There are too many girls out there that are far from being sweet. Anyways, you're only 18. You have plenty of time to date. There seems to be this misconception that you stop dating after 30. The game still goes on well after. ;)

[melissarose8585]

I'm not a guy, but I do have some advice. Someone out there will date you, as everyone likes different types. But if it makes you unhappy, do something about it. Lose some weight, exercise.

Otherwise, be confident and happy. Guys will be more apt to look at YOU instead of your body if you act like you are the sexiest thing there. I've never been small, always a little bigger than I wanted to be. But my confidence and happiness with myself helped. I've never had a problem findig guys because I don't act liek I'm ashamed of my body.

I hope this helps you some, and good luck!

[jbone79]

it plays a moderate role in everyones relationship. Unless the person is a shallow jackoff, then they make physical looks a big deal. But those people are idiots anyways so try to avoid them. look I know you don't want to here this, when I was younger I didn't want to hear it, but I had to. If your not happy with what you see in the mirror, then do what I did! Start exercising and go from there. give it some time and I promise you will feel better about yourself! Then other people won't matter because your doing it for you. I had a girlfriend who was overweight 90 percent of her life. We broke up last sunday, but I would have stayed with her because I liked her for who she was. I hope this helps.

[ap1100]

I'm sorry to say that while I do prefer modest girls to reduce my natural male desire to be physically attracted to someone, there is one and only one physical attribute I will reject: being overweight. Now, I'm 6'4" and weight 182, and while I'm in shape, I'm not a guy with hot muscles or anything like that. So why not find a guy who's built similar to you? I think for me, it's more of a lifestyle choice than anything else. I'd date a girl who wasn't that attractive if we were compatible in terms of body size.

[loopylisa7]

if you're not happy about your weight do something about it hun. That's what I did, and I'm getting there, and I feel great for doing it. x

[kugmo]

I hate to say this but Yes, Physical attraction plays a vital role on selecting who you want to be with. Guys just play dumb when they say that the outside look is not a factor on a relationship, of course it is.Sorry but it is the truth.