Appearance is by far the most important thing to me. It's a vessel that allows the society at large an insight of your personality itself. You don't judge books by their cover but you would never pick up a book which's cover does not arouse your interest and curiosity. It is an instant impression of your lifestyle; your hygiene, your fitness (physical activity), your confidence, your awareness about fashion etc. Even what kind of interests you have at several instances.
I do not think you need to be a size zero model to look beautiful. Women like Adele are 'over weight' but no one can call her ugly. Quite the contrary, women such as her and Oprah practically rule the world. It's just their passion and self interest which blossoms and comes across as that appealing.
If you sincerely truly believe you are beautiful, the whole world will agree with you. It's just THAT simple. 'Ugly' people are those who are victims of criticism, they lose confidence and they let go. So yes, if you want to be beautiful, you WILL be. And I have seen not only chubby but fat girls influence others on considering them drop dead gorgeous. Even become prom queens and all.
I would suggest you dress up and style yourself the way you like it. If you force yourself to live up to someone else's opinion you will ALWAYS fall short. The only thing I wanted to advise to you (and I'm sure you're already on the right track) is to be considerate about yourself, love yourself and take care of yourself. Don't eat little. Eat HEALTHY.
This is just my opinion :)
it's not the most important thing, but it is partly important though. you have to find something attractive about the other person in order to get with them.
(in order for a human to live, you need a heart, a brain, blood, longues, etc. there's not one thing that's most important...you need all parts. you see where I'm going with this?)
Appearance is important - but I'm not talking about washboard abs and manscaping. It's more of the air you exude. In example, there is a guy I am interested in. He has a tiny bit of a belly, and his calves are huge because he walks on his toes, his head is a bit larger than average and his teeth aren't completely perfect like mine (thank you, braces). BUT HE IS SO ATTRACTIVE. He is genuine, funny, relaxed, and giving. And all of those attributes shine through his outward appearance. That is to say, if he was ugly on the inside, I'd think he was ugly on the outside. But, he is beautiful on the inside - improving his appearance greatly.
It is not important to me at all. You need to be attracted to the person you're with but for me it is mostly about personality. I've dated guys who were big on appearance and the relationship ended quickly because I don't dress up to make myself feel pretty, I know I'm pretty I couldn't be happier or more comfortable in jeans, converse and a t-shirt. I dress up for work and that's it. The weight if someone doesn't matter to everyone.
Well personally I think appearance is very important, but it's not the most important thing. A person can act right, dress right and present themselves right, but on the inside they can be judgmental, idiotic and cruel, so I would rather look like sh*t and have an amazing personality than look perfect and be a complete ass.
At first glance it is. The more you get to know someone often the more attractive they become. Thus making an average looking person ten times as attractive in my eyes. People also have different tastes so what is unattractive to one person is irresistable to another. Also chubby girls can be cute.e.
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No appearance isn't the most important thing
yes it is important but isn't the "most" you have to be attracted to the other person or else the relationship wouldn't get that far. I also learned from dating my previous that just because you look good it wouldn't keep me from staying around if you don't have a good personality
As long as you're decent looking there shouldn't be an issue. Looks count about 30% and the rest is personality. As far as how you should look or act, just be yourself. There'll be a guy that's into you for everything you are. (:
I don't think there is anyone who sees appearance as the most important thing. But it is an important factor, because you need to be physically attracted to your partner.
It's not the MOST important imo, but it is pretty important.
You have to be attracted to your partner.
Appearance is what initially attracts you to a person anyways.
It's not all I look for in a girl, but yes.. appearance is the most important thing for me.
It's important, but I'm not expecting any girl to be like a super model. I just have to be attracted you.
you need to be pretty enough to attract a guy
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