I met this girl on a dating website. We never hung out. But I have seen her from a distance. I get a lot of pictures from. Some pictures are nude and some are pictures of her daughter. When she is single she texts me pretty often as if she has no one else to talk to. But when she is in a relationship. Normally, I would from her once every two weeks. But in her current relationship. I will her from her 4 days straight and then she would stop texting me for 3 to 4 days. Its has became a pattern. Now 3 years has past and she decides to get engage with her current boyfriend. Of course this sucks. Now I have to get over her. But I can't because she still wants to text me. I don't understand...she knows I like her a lot. But she still wants to talk to me. I can't see myself being her text buddy and I can't believe she would want too. Why she won't leave me alone? Does this make any sense?
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girls aren't like guys. they like having male friends genuinely. they message/ text/ meet up/ hang with guys they would never date just for the sake of it. they enjoy talking and the company. Also sometimes if having fights with their partner etc they may like to talk to a male to make themselves feel better.
I have a feeling she never viewed you as more than a friend and well she isn't using you per se because she does seem to genuinely view you as someone she enjoys talking to, howevver, that is it. and she probably is confused as to how you love her so much that it would pain you to talk to her if you can't have her considering you haven't even met! I think you put yourself in the friend zone a long time ago..if this bugs you, you need to say something to her. saying you like her, well people say that all the time to friends. it doesn't mean oh I like you so much that I want you and want to be with you and if we can't be more I don't want to be friends and leave me alone. so saying you like her all the time isn't really going to be getting the message across to leave you alone if she is with somoene else. In fact it probably boosted her ego, hence why she sent you all those pics when she was single, to make herself feel better about herself because she knows you always compliment her etc0
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