How do you KNOW if a guy doesn't care about you?

[Anonymous]

How do you KNOW if a Guy doesn't care about you? AT ALL

[101488]

He doesn't call or text you back. The too busy stuff is bs. It doesn't take long to send a text at the very least. If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you yet wants to keep you around for favors...whatever those may be. If he picks fights about anything and everything...it's because he needs a reason to break up with you. I've done that to a few girls I lost interest. If he checks out other women all the time when you're around and obsesses about how sexy they are...I mean it's normal for us to look @ other women but to not care if you notice and even obsess about it as though you're not there...that's just very disrespectful. When a guy tries to hook you up with his friends. When you try to talk about yourself, and they keep changing it about themselves. It's not that he's necessarily a narcissist but that he only cares about himself and not you. When you care about someone you want to hear what's going on with them and their life. When he vanishes and disappears for weeks at a time...with no excuse...he doesn't give a crap about you. He's unreliable. He never keeps up with his plans, and just shows you're on the bottom of his priority list and you're always left on the back-burner. His body language...if he pulls away or acts awkward. He wants to get away from you. If he calls you names or puts you down and always criticizes you...he doesn't care for you.

Most guys (Not All) will never tell a chick they don't care. Whether it's a serious long-term partner and the feelings died out. Or a chick they have no plans to take it further with on a first date. Hope this helps you.

[Asker]

Yeah, it helped and hurts at the same time. My ex dumped me out of the blue at times and seemed like he tried to break up with for any reason. But when I tried to break up with him he came running back to me.

[danzo1990]

you'll tend to find that the guy who dosnt care about you will act wired around you, he will not answer calls or text back, or sometimes he might not even talk to you, he may just walk straight past you without saying hello. Its all things like that when you know a guy isn't interested in you

[cheerclover27]

It varies from guy to guy. Some guys will make it really obvious if they couldn't give a crap about the girl they're with, and some guys are super sweet and act "loving" when they're really texting 10 other girls while he's with you. If you get pretty bad vibes from a guy, then listen to them.

[Anonymous]

There are so many ways you can tell if a guy doesn't care for you. Your question is very general. Has something happened to make you think your guy doesn't care for you?

[Anonymous]

When he doesn't pay attention to you or doesn't care what you do anymore. Maybe he will start acting negative towards you. Best way to know is to just ask him, if he gives you some cheesy lame answer then chances are he don't care about you.

[Anonymous]

no way to tell, a guy can be talking to you and say he loves you but really he won't care about you and be moving on to the next girl as soon as you do something to p*ss him off

[Anonymous]

If you think he doesn't care, he probably don't care anymore. Go with your gut!