That is a very biased opinion washize, I don't agree with that at all. Maybe, the sober people you know are like that. I know quite a few who like to have a good time and laugh who are sober. They are a lot funnier to be around then drunk idiots who make complete fools out of themselves. If a girl didn't like me just because I was sober, I would think she's really messed up and needs help herself.
A drunk chick is a huge turn-off for guys. I'd be way more attracted to a girl who carries herself well, and remembers everything she says and does every night.
Not a girl who gets so drunk the she bangs her besties boyfriend because she had to many sec on the beaches. With that said, anything in moderation is fine, but younger girls have trouble with that, and can't hold there shit.
Congratulations on the one year btw! Keep it up. I'm sober as well and I don't have trouble getting woman. Most chicks respect it and can see you have your shit together. Plus your always sharp and on your game, it gives you a one up over the drunks who are grabbing chicks asses and getting slapped :p
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I'm British and we like to drink, well most of us anyway, I've cut down a lot over the last 2-3 years but I do on occasion like a few pints of beer and on the odd occasion I'll get pretty drunken. I couldn't not date a woman who had a problem with me ordering the occasional beer with a meal in a restaurant or who would throw a tantrum if I came home drunken once in a while.
If I was drinking a lot at home and coming home drunken often then that's unacceptable and she would have every right to see that as a massive red flag.
I like to drink, thus I prefer men who drink. I don't mind hanging out with sober guys, but dating them is a bit of a buzz kill. Especially if they're the type that don't like to do anything or go anywhere.
It's seldom that you find a sober person who is fun, charismatic, and explorative. Most sober people are fairly reserved. Not that there isn't anything wrong with that, but it isn't ideal for the relationship dynamic that I am interested in.
I like a guy who doesn't drink but he doesn't brag about being sober all the time either. He doesn't have to explain himself to anyone, just be what he is.
Also, it sounds like you were an alcoholic! Were you? If this is true, it would be off-putting.
It doesn't really matter I guess. Girls find guys attractive in any state of appearance. But if you're thinking about girls that are like not into parties or party people then by that, they like sober guys.
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I don't really care one way or another, but a girl who's looking for a guy to bring home or show off to judgmental friends will probably prefer a sober guy..
I'm pretty much straightedge so a sober guy is pretty nice!
I'd prefer a sober guy over a guy who was substance dependent any day. I am not a bit drinker myself because I like to keep myself healthy.
I don't drink at all, so I prefer guys who don't drink or barley drink.
If a girl likes you she will respect that you are sober.
I dont like drinking so guys that dont drink too much are great.
I prefer drinkers but congratulations.
yeah sober guys are ok
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