DO NOT SEND THEM…Unless of course you want everyone he knows to see them…if a guy wants a picture of girl its for 2 things, in this order, 2% of the time is deviant to this order (meaning 98% of time it goes as described)…1) he is using them for motivation for, well, i could say a multitude of things here, so ill go with 'self pleasuring' then…2) show his friends, or worse he sends them to his friends, then those friends send them to their friends, so on and so on, and with in 48 hrs (I'm being generous, likely only about 12) I get said picture send to me…chuckle "nice" and forward…its a cruel world, but if you want that kind of attention (I highly advise against it)…go for it
If you don't want to tell him to kiss your ass. The pic will probably end up in the internet if you give it to him anyways. Here's a good way to make your decision, go to google image search and search stolen nude selfie, and you'll surely know why it's not a good idea, unless you are totally cool with that I wouldn't recommend it.
He's trying to manipulate you by saying you don't trust him. Don't ever send pics like that or you can guarantee they'd end up online or in other people's phones. Either way, why do you feel you owe him that? You should be PISSED he has the nerve to ask that of you.
His getting upset over that is a classic manipulation tactic. Even if you DID want to send those pictures, he should be respectful of you and not take it as a personal slight that you don't send them. The situation sounds shady and I don't think you should do it.
The bottom line is: are you comfortable with that? If the answer is no, don't do it, no matter what he says. Never let anyone pressure you into doing things that you're not ready to do. It's your choice, not his.
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u How many dates have you had with him? How much trust have you established so far? It takes time and shared experiences to build trust and there is very little reason to trust him early in the game.
If you do send underwear pictures, guess what his next request will be! Don't send anything that you would not want reposted on social media or porn sites.
That is not a good idea at all.
once those pictures are out there, they are there forever.
You no longer have control over who sees them and what is done with them.
All an potential employer has to do is google your name and they will show up.
What would happen if that is what they start with those types of pictures and then ask for more but naked/topless pictures.
Would you let yourself be talked into doing something like that?
Just say no and you will be just fine no matter what excuses they use for you to send them those types of pictures.
Lesson number one for high school girls: just because u like a guy, doesn't mean u should trust him. You're not even together, why would he feel obligated to keep them private? If u give it up that easy that tells him he can get u to do anything for him eventually. And when u won't, he'll move on. If he truly likes u he'll wait
Don't do it you are going to regret it. I have guys ask me for pics like that all the time but no I don't give it. If you aren't comfortable with it, then don't do it. If he can't respect that then oh well you tried. And plus if you were to do it, he would share it with his friends and show it to his friends, and you never know it could end up on the internet and you could never get it down.
I wouldn't, the guy seems like a pervert and like really, he's getting upset over you saying no. I say just tell him no and if he leaves you if you don't then its his loss, you don't deserve that anyways
I vote for NO.. Don't send your nude or semi nude
1 when you are under 18
2 to someone not even your spouse or real bf
3 online
4 you seem uncomfortable about it
No, he's trying to manipulate you into doing something you're uncomfortable with. He's just a pervert, he doesn't care about you.
Do not do things you are uncomfortable with no matter what a guy tells you. Stay strong.
Careful, if you're underage you could get charged with distributing child pornography. Silly I know. But you shouldn't do what you don't feel comfortable, especially if he's trying to guilt trip you. He has an imagination.
At your age no. If you want to take a picture of your bra and panties without you in them then it would be fine
You can send the picture... just remember that it will probably be seen by hundreds, if not thousands of others, when he posts it online.
If he wants to see you in bra and panties, ask him to come over in person.
He shouldn't be getting upset over it.
I personally wouldn't. Seems like he'd brag or show it to his friends, but do whatever you want.
Blur out your face first If your guna do that. Just remember it might end up on the internet.
I wouldn't do it if he's pressuring you. If he hasn't seen you in person that way, I wouldn't send it to him as a picture. It may very well end up in places you don't want.
Bish, hell no! You like him... now. But what do you think will happen if you don't for the rest of your life? He will have your pic forever and if y'all split, he can use it however he likes
No. He might be playing a joke or being some sick pig. My opinion. Don't trust men when they ask for pictures that are not right
Blur out the face and use a random picture of the internet
No the guy just wants u as a sex toy or use u for p*rn. Don't trust him!!!
Unless you are in a formal relationship, no.
Noo no no no no D: never do that ! you don't know what he can do with those pictures !
Just no >_<
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