I'm not sure if it should matter or not. But it kind of makes sense. I am always told that im so cute and adorable. Most people I meet love me from the second they meet me. They tell me that I'm so cute and such. Everyone at work tells me that and they say i'm their favorite. I know cute is likable but is it ever in a romantic sense?
I've never had a boyfriend so i'm not sure if this is why. I feel like i have to change myself, or at least the way i dress to get attention in that way but i'm not sure. I dont want to. I am comfortable with who i am. I like being likable. i dress sort of like this
the last outfit.
And i dont act like an airhead. I am clumsy but i'm not an airhead. I'm still in college. I'm an engineering major. So maybe I do spend a lot of time studying. I love cats. and yes i enjoy talking about cats. Not sure if thats bad either. I'm not a pushover. I can stand up for myself 99% of the time. I get told im pretty funny and a joy to be around so i really am likable. Also, people say i have a great smile.
So its not that im ugly. i guess its not a problem. i can tolerate dirty jokes and dirty talk. it doesn't offend me. but it does offend me when someone is trying to immediately trying to get in my pants. it takes a lot more than a hello.
so im not sure if being too innocent like i am is hurting my chances or something?
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