I just have not been given the opportunity to be in a romantic relationship with a woman, therefore i am still a virgin. Does this make me a failure in life. I don't think so myself. I feel like i want love and a relationship with someone i can share my life with rather then just sex. But a lot of people seem to focus on the sex. I feel life if i would be in a relationship i would focus more on trying to treat my girlfriend in a way that makes her think that i respect her as an equal and that i care about her rather just trying to have sex with her. Do you think i am a failure in life because i am a virgin.
- It is good you care more about love then sex.Vote A
- It does not matter if you are a virgin. A relationship matters more.Vote B
- You are not a failure but you being a virgin at 24 is not good.Vote C
- You are a failure because you are a virgin.Vote D
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I didn't vote, because surprisingly, I don't agree with any of the answer choices. I almost voted "C" but I don't think a relationship matters more (just being honest here, I'm a horn-dog.)
However, to answer your question, you are NOT a failure just because you're a 24 year old virgin. Actually, girls LIKE virgins, since women aren't fixated on sex.
I'm a 24 year old virgin and it's not by choice. I will admit, I've been rejected countless times. Unlike you, all I pretty much want is sex (dating is ok too though.) I just graduated from College on the Dean's List on Sunday and I'm going to intern for a teaching job in the Fall. I've also worked many hours in the workforce for eight years. I'm also close to my family and stay out of trouble. I'm FAR from a "loser."
Being a virgin or not does not determine "loser" status in my opinion. The only people I hear call male virgins "losers" are other guys. Girls LOVE this.2