My sister who was a promiscuous girl told me that I will regret not sleeping around and you will miss the fun. because I'm a 24 year old virgin but at the moment I really like a guy and hope to be with him. I told her I won't miss it because I don't want to give my self to different men I'll feel bad about myself for doing that it's just not me or my personality. I don't judge her for being the way she was so she shouldn't judge me either; I know I'm not the only girl in the world that's like this. Why is she trying to make me feel like I'm missing out on being a slut? I don't want to share myself with multiple partners. My friend also makes me feel like this too and she has men lined up in her phone. It's so hard to relate to other girls because their all like my sister and my friend they think its foreign to be innocent and not want to give it up to every guy who comes my way.
Most Helpful Guy
You're a better, more desirable girl than her. Sluts are the ones who can't find proper husbands after they become washed up.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've never slept around or even plan on doing it until after marriage. But that doesn't stop me from doing my research about finding out and learning about sex and kinky things.
Don't let other people discourage you. You have the right to do what you want with your life.
a lot of people will respect your decision especially the guy who you plan to give it to (hopefully someone who love/marry).
Also don't refer to women who sleep around as sluts or hoes. Every women shoudl respect another woman's decision; whether they agree with her life style or not. Tell your sister and friend that this is the life style you want and you respect there's but would rather stick to your own ideologies and morals. People are different you aren't just going to jump on the bandwagon because everyone else is.
Be you and stand your ground. :)1