So this guy and I aren’t anything serious. We have been talking for a long time. I let him know he can just hit me up when he wants to hang. But he usually just texts me throughout the day. Because he apparently likes talking to me, from what he’s told me.
The other night I went out and told him my friend suppose to be some guys friends to this party I’m going to. But I told him I just wanted to drink and not mess around. He basically told me to f*** one of those dudes 🤔 I was like you wouldn’t be mad? He was like nah I can’t be jealous about a girl I ain’t dating. (We I didn’t do anything with anyone)
So now, just last night. I had an old guy friend hit me up and we get along great. I posted our convo on snap cause it was funny. But later that night I hit up my “sneaky link” I would call him cause we wasn’t serious. It turned into a bigger conversation. But now he wants to go separate way’s because “he’s not gonna compete for a girl or be someone’s hoe” he said “your talking to a whole dude” I said your the one who said you can’t be jealous about a girl your with. He said “I’m not jealous” he also said “why bother hitting you up” (I guess since another guy is texting me) he really said “but you can have him tho” I told him he seen me the same way and treated me like hoe. I told him I’m sure your talking to other girls but I still text you. He ignored that. But at the end of the conversation. He said “he did like me and he didn’t use me.” He also said “that I only seen him as someone to fuck with.” He said we was toxic.
We ended on good terms though but I don’t get why he’s upset about another guy when we aren’t even serious? Can someone help me understand this?
The other night I went out and told him my friend suppose to be some guys friends to this party I’m going to. But I told him I just wanted to drink and not mess around. He basically told me to f*** one of those dudes 🤔 I was like you wouldn’t be mad? He was like nah I can’t be jealous about a girl I ain’t dating. (We I didn’t do anything with anyone)
So now, just last night. I had an old guy friend hit me up and we get along great. I posted our convo on snap cause it was funny. But later that night I hit up my “sneaky link” I would call him cause we wasn’t serious. It turned into a bigger conversation. But now he wants to go separate way’s because “he’s not gonna compete for a girl or be someone’s hoe” he said “your talking to a whole dude” I said your the one who said you can’t be jealous about a girl your with. He said “I’m not jealous” he also said “why bother hitting you up” (I guess since another guy is texting me) he really said “but you can have him tho” I told him he seen me the same way and treated me like hoe. I told him I’m sure your talking to other girls but I still text you. He ignored that. But at the end of the conversation. He said “he did like me and he didn’t use me.” He also said “that I only seen him as someone to fuck with.” He said we was toxic.
We ended on good terms though but I don’t get why he’s upset about another guy when we aren’t even serious? Can someone help me understand this?
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Cause he is crazy!
Sounds like he was testing you about the party! Then got pissed when you went.
Glad it ended but also good it was nothing serious. a lot of the time poeple catch feelings and that silly talk becomes serious relationship before something like this happens.
So do you think he started acting feelings? I don’t see what the point of the test was 😂🤷🏾♀️ lol that’s crazy
My point he was dumb and now it is over. He was crazy and acted as such.
Your body is yours to do with as you want to!
He was right it was nothing but talk and you can be with who ever you want to at the party. If you wanted to join another couple you could or do an orgy.
I think he loved u