i send a girl (i think, could be a man pretending to be a girl) a nude on kik a stupid thing to do i know but I've done it. she's saying if i dont pay her £100 shell show the world had she found my Facebook, I've deleted my Facebook but she has a list of my friends but i think she just has names but can't access their users? (im not good with FB so i dont know) she is also saying shell put it on twitter. I've said go for it hoping she won't and it was just a bluff. what do i do?
Most Helpful Girl
How bad would the consequences be if it gets out? Would you be at risk of losing your job or anything? If the picture isn't terrible then I'd tell the blackmailer you're not paying and It's fine if people see how good you look naked. You're not embarrassed about your body or whatever you want to say but ACT CASUAL. Do not beg them to do one thing or the other.0
Most Helpful Guy
Alright, i've a few points to make.
1.) DON'T PAY HER (or him) ANYTHING. Why? Because let's say you hypothetically do pay em-- who is to say they won't go like "alright, I want 100 more now."
2.) She can't really do much. Hypothetically, let's say she decides to post your pics everywhere. What happens? Shame? Well, in this day and age, people sending nudes isn't exactly uncommon. If I had a friend's nude sent to me, I'd probably be like "wtf," talk to the friend about it and say some sketchy person sent me a nude of you, and move on. I'm not going to do something immature like hate the friend for having his photo leaked on accident. I figure most people would react the same.
3.) If you didn't have your face in it or any distinguishable features in it (personal info), you are even more in the clear. Unless your dick bends like a curly Q, glows neon green, or has your name stamped on it, it's going to look like every other penis for the most part. No one would even know it's you unless you told them.
4.) Report her to the police. I'm pretty sure it is illegal to post someone's explicit photos online without permission. Heck, you could probably google reverse search your own photo and figure out if she posts it anywhere (like on twitter.)
5.) I won't become all moral on you and rant on sending nudes and stuff... But if you decide to send them...
a.) Never show face or distinguishable pictures (or you just learn to not care if your nude pics are out on the internet to see)
b.) I highly recommend it is someone you trust (or you just learn to not care if your nude pics are out on the internet to see)
Don't pay her! Stay calm! There have been many people scammed into this before. Don't fall into it. As bad as you think it seems, realize it isn't the end of the world.1