Why white women hate Asian and Latina girls?

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for example like this...lol

"I am a white woman . White women have problem losing a lot of good white men to other cultures. I lived in California and in a lot of areas Asian and latin women and many are very pretty are taking the white men in big numbers. I think the IR thing been going on for years in secret just like how gays been sleeping with each other for years, only difference is now its out in the open instead of hidden. I work with many white women and majority are dating or married to white men so this is not as widespread as made out. I think this hype is just that and a lot of frustrated people blowing smoke."

now think, maybe "problem losing a lot of good white men to other cultures" is your fault, maybe there is something that attract those men to those asian/ latino girls that white girls doesn't have?

Jinmetsu_Rasetsu · Accepted Answer

It happens in all races... I am 25% Cherokee, 66% Black, and 6% French... The rest *shrugs*...

Since I am mostly Black, I racially am grouped as Black, although I DO NOT identify myself with any race. My Girlfriend is caucasian (Irish) and I have no problem with it. My parents (dad being 1/2 Cherokee and mom being 1/8 french and whatever else... LOL) don't care. I get flack from all sorts of Black women for being a "sell out". I brought up my ancestry to agree with you about the interracial thing going on in history... And I am 33 years old... BTW, her parents are happy that she is happy with me.

This is what I am saying:

It should not matter. People like what they like and due to the fact of the PC thing of racial accceptance, whe should tolerate whatever anyone else has as a preference. I can honestly say that I would never date a black woman, and not because I don't think there are any pretty ones out there... It is a matter of fact that I have had bad experiences in the past with some... Although, It is unfair that I base what I precieve now on my past experiences... But I am only human and we all are entitled to be human. And Human means we are imperfect and err. However, My point is this, Perhaps these men are tired of what is "normal" (normal is a subjective term, but you get what I mean...), for something that is exceptional or not as "run of the mill".

You should not have a problem with it... TBH, Perhaps you need to open your mind and even explore others yourself. My Girlfriend never dated anyone other than white men herself, and according to her, all other men cheated on her in the past... I will never do that because I was rased with the mentality that cheating is totally unacceptable... Not saying all white people cheat... I am just saying, she was suprised that I am the type of person I am. And she loves me for it, being I am the only non caucasian man she has ever dated. And we are considering marriage even though we only dated since September. I don't care about race... I dated Cherokee women, Caucasian women, Black women, Hispanic women, and Asian women... I can tell you this, All women are the same in some ways, and in others there are some interesting differences. Perhaps these men want something different. And I see no problem with wanting different. I always looked (until I met my GF) for "Different" and not something that resembles me. That is why I don't want to date Bleck women nor Cherokee women.

Just don't Knock anything until you try it... You may find a pleasent suprise...

And for the record, even religiously we are different... She was raised Catholic, but is agnostic now, and I practice Judaism... LOL

Markezzo · Accepted Answer

If you're white and live in the west, which is very dominated by whites, then people will fear their partners will be more attracted to someone more exotic than themselves. I'm sure if you were Asian and lived in the east then you wouldn't want to see white people be more popular with the opposite gender simply because they're exotic and exciting.

In short, it's jealousy. It's stupid but as long it doesn't develop into racism I don't judge people who feel this way.

Sayaka1202 · Accepted Answer

In my opinion, I think there are some caucasian women who in appearance, personality or both, who really put me to shame, and when I see these women, I kind of feel like I wish more caucasian girls could be like this. The major difference between us and them I think is more of us try to maintain feminine qualities. As for appearance, I think if they are careful with their skin, and use makeup and clothes properly, they can look really stunning.

I really hope this doesn't sound racist, but I sometimes feel like many caucasian women could win our men and theirs really easily if they learned somethings from us and similar women in their own culture about looking after their bodies and maintaining feminine appeal.

iPood · Accepted Answer

I think it's a bit of jealousy, but this can be found in every race. ie black women angry that black men date outside their race etc. The most jealous/crazy people at my university are the foreign girls from Asia who flip a sh*t whenever they see an Asian guy with a non-asian girl so this proves it goes both ways and isn't restricted to just one race. I don't concern myself with who others are dating because I just don't care.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

white women have their men on lock, and not only do they date white men but they have no issue being able to date any minority man either. if anything I'd say interracial relationships are the easiest if you're a white woman since they typically do it the most.

xobrowneyedbeauty · Accepted Answer

that's just a stupid woman who probably can't get anyone. most of my girl friends are Asian and I'm white. I think you're taking a really small sample size of white women and only noticing the idiots. there are plenty who aren't like that believe me lol.

Eiffelgirl21 · Answer

Those people are ignorant. I do not hate them..In fact, I envy them. But, all in all, I think it is 2 sided. African Americans, latinas, and Asians  feel the same about white women taking 'their' men.

sephora · Answer

The whole thing about girls saying people are taking "their men" (they don't own them) is pretty pathetic. They need to stop worrying about who is dating who.

ShootingStar5 · Answer

Sounds like the white guys who bitch that black guys steal "their women." I'm with Saber, can't we all just get along?

yopyopyop · Answer

Maybe it's because some people categorize other people by their color, when other people just see humans?

DianaWest · Answer

maybe the same reason why people of all races hate it when others "take their men/women" from them.

johari · Answer

I boosted your ratings I think..I think its because they aren't pale and can tan or have some color/flavor to them

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. I'm white and I don't hate Asian or Latina girls.

Saber6 · Answer

can't we all just get along. love thy neighbor.

stillagoodgirl · Answer

Now they're fleeing to black men

NewClassic · Answer

Jealousy?

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