Why do most black girls have attitude problems?

[Anonymous]

For example, today was my first day back and work and this black girl was just standing in the way and I was trying to get the bread out of the drawer and I said, "Excuse me, I have to get this." And she's like, "I don't care what you have to get." And then she kept calling me "Little girl, little girl" and told me to "just drop it" and I didn't even say anything to her. What the f***?

And then later she made another snide comment at me for no reason.

A lot of black girls have hated me in the past for basically no reason. This is not the only incident. No wonder black guys don't want to date them...or anyone else for that matter.

When someone has a problem with me, I just keep quiet and avoid them because I'm not witty or confident enough to come up with a good comeback.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

I have no idea why some black girls act like that - okay well I have a couple;

I grew up in a hoodish area, and all my life it's never been I have to be a black woman - I have to be a strong black woman. Basically, we're taught not to take no sh*t from anyone, and not to back down to anyone. Problem is, some black girls don't seem to understand that you only get like that when it's appropriate, and walk around life thinking they can just talk to anyone any kind of way. It gets on my last f***ing nerve, when I see these chicks acting a damn fool for no reason.

What kills me is the little sh*t like what you said about asking to get the bread, and she's getting all snippy at the mouth for being asked to scoot over? The f*** bitch? You don't own that got damn piece of floor lol - get your rude ass out the way!

Some of them are just stupid - and your right about dating wise - I just did an analysis about the low divorce rates among African Americans and one of the biggest psychological points was about black women being more " unyielding " or " difficult" Just inflexible, and you have to be somewhat flexible to be a good partner - sh*t can't be your way all the damn time.

I think some black girls get like that because they feel like they have to act that way to prove something, and establish some type of dominance and sh*t.

And yea, black women are more prompted to get at white girls because you guys are stereotypically seen as being " weaker. "

I don't understand how that thinking in the black women like that becomes that illogical and pointless.

I do have an attitude, and I can get ghetto - but only when it's absolutely neccessary.

And I'm sorry -

Getting in someone's face about moving over? Is not adequate enough in any respects.

But that prompts me to ask - did you and her have problems before?

[Asker]

No we didn't. She just started acting like a bitch for no reason

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Oh well, sorry you gotta deal with that. I've had my share of dumb ass confrontations with dumb ass black girls. Actually dumb ass Hispanic, white, and black girls lol.

You were right in staying professional and not arguing with her though. Don't feel bad or that you chickened out or whatever. Now if she puts her hands on you, you better knock her ass out lol

[Asker]

At work every black girl that has worked there has a had a problem with me and been bitchy to me. First it was Tiffany, then Ashley, and now this girl Tashawna.

Black guys like me so maybe she saw one of them hugging me and got jealous. I don't know wtf her problem is, I didn't do sh*t to her.

The black girls at my Uni are actually nice to me for the most part but not the ones at work.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Hmm that's interesting. Could be they are one of those girls who see a white girl with a black guy and assume you think your bad ass or something. I know it's a silly idea right, but you'd be surprised how many people actually think that way.

[Asker]

Well I've never dated a black guy or anything. I've actually never had a boyfriend. There are some black girls who are friends of mine.

I'm just a sensitive person and I don't know but it's just like, wtf I didn't do anything to you.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Oh well you said there are black guys who like you, so that could of set em off. I don't know what their deal is either : \

Ugh...people suck.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Thanks for BA hope this problem works out for you :)

[Anonymous]

wahhhhh some black girls were like mean to me, that means they all have attitudes and no one wants to date them lol omg I can't believe they would hurt a precious white flower like me!

Seriously you are ignorant and racist. So the only people who have been rude to you have been black girls? everyone else has been kind and sweet to you, but majority black girls you meet are nasty to you? OK. I'm pretty sure you have met nasty white people too, but since you don't lump all your people together you'd never come on here asking "why do most white people..."

Basically this question is a result of confirmation bias. You already have a negative bias towards black women so anything any black woman does will confirm what you already have in your head. And any negative experience you have with someone who isn't a black woman won't even register because you don't have enough with to make that connection because it doesn't fall in line with your delusional racism.

More than likely we angry black women can pick up on your subtle attitude (yes, *you* have an attitude!) and it causes the girls you come in contact with to dislike you. You probably come off a lot more passive aggressive in person than you realize and you just might, have a teensy bit of a victim mentality.

[Arwens-Fire]

Attitude problems is not limited to "black girls". You're ignorant for thinking so and secondly, this idea of attitude problems go both ways. You happened to encounter an ignorant girl.Her race has nothing to do with it.I have experienced Caucasian girls getting silly attitudes with me,but I would be completely ignorant to ask,"Why do white girls have attitude problems?"

Your justification of why black men won't date black women go way beyond you own small and limited perception. There are also reasons why black men won't date white women. Or I can sub out any race and say that. -_-

[Robotic]

+1 I'm sure she has met some ignorant rude white chicks too, but her being white of course she does not notice it. Black = different than her = more noticeable.

[Arwens-Fire]

I hear you for sure.Suddenly, she is bent out of shape because it is a black girl doing it, and not someone of her own race. Basic intelligence involves being able to assess a situation and take out the factor of race.Behavior has a whole hell of a lot to do with how someone may have been raised,their environment etc. Its ignorance and just silly really.

[ElijahCynicism]

Black people evolved in the harsh planes and dense jungles of Africa. That means, under constant threat of tigers, lions, herds of bison, elephants, whatever else; harsh sun, harsh soil, harsh and extreme weather. America, pre-slavery, was made up of Europeans, mainly british and irish stock. Lush climate, heavy rainfall, at most meadows, no natural predators, etc.

If you want to get into racial generalisations, they will not be as complacent as you.

[BernnWard]

Tigers in Africa? smh.

[Creasybear]

Trust me Africa was plentiful. Europe was cold not much light or plant animal growth as in Africa. Black women are just angry because people don't treat them as kindly as they do othe races. Black people behave like undisciplined abused children because they are. And no there are no tigers in Africa

[ZenQueen]

just laugh her off, that's all you can do, if you feel threatened, get the manager or call the cops, don't waste an ounce of energy fighting the dumb piece of trash, that's not because of her race but her attitude, like others have said, there is white trash, mexican trash, asian, etc. Don't let her form your opinion on all black people, if you do then you are just as ignorant as she is, and then maybe you do deserve to be part of a weave pulling fight like the ones on Jerry Springer, lol. Don't stoop to her level. But also don't be afraid to bring a knife to work, or take some karate classes, be confident in your own self defense It's a good skill to have, you will be more confident in life in general.

[Asker]

its not just her or I wouldn't be asking this question. I've had black girls be rude to me througout my life

[ZenQueen]

only black girls have been rude to you? sweet o ness explained it right, SOME are that way... I feel that you are playing the victim role...maybe she'sgrown up on the streets her whole life and she has to have tough skin, maybe she was beat up by white people and will forever hate them, that's her story you can't change who people are, everyone has a past, as long as she's not physically harming you, swallow your pride and move on, there will always be people like this. Stop trying to group people..

[Anonymous]

You seem like you have an attitude problem as well. You're mixing with the wrong people. I was best friends with a Jamaican girl once, and she was really kind and gentle. I met another Nigerian girl who was friendly.

Maybe you need to move to a better area.

[Asker]

I like this girl from Zambia and she's not a bitch but maybe its just American black girls

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmmm. Or does it depend on the state? And what are the white girls like in your area?

[Saffyistired]

I am Jewish and I agree I was made to sit on the floor today on the bus because I'm white, two girls kept kissing their teeth at me shouting at me saying my skin is disgusting and my hair is permed and apparently my natural curls are racist? How can dna be racist? Not all but many women do this, white women can be dicks but if I ignore them at least they don't actively come and shout at me or make me sit on the floor or call me a dirty jew. I am so tired of this, happens everyday

[sp1213]

Is this a real question? Lmfao.