Why do guys hate it when we girls run our fingers through their hair? and why do you guys hate it?

[Anonymous]

okay so me and my boyfriend who I am with since one year were talking today and he was looking so adorable that I ran my fingers in his hair. FROM FRONT TO THE BACK I ran the fingers. I expected him to be happy but instead he literally bursted into angry and said you don't even how to do it and you did the wrong or cheap way and destroyed my hair. I said sorry and he said don't pull my hair ever or just do it the right way. I got so hurt. I still am and he still is angry.

i don't know what to do..

[martyfellow]

Since when do all guys hate that?

I haven't heard that allegation before! Most guys love female fingers frolicking in their follicles. Even I like it, and I'm balding, so there's not much to run your fingers through!

I guess guys with really carefully styled hair, the James Dean look, dont' like anyone mussing their har though. I've known girls like that, so I guess some guys can be the same way.

If I were you, I'd just keep on mussing the hair. James Dean has been dead a long time now.

[PrincessHarry]

"you destroyed my hair" HE SOUNDS LIKE A PRINCESS/SISSY BOY.

there is nothing wrong with running your fingers through a man's hair (as long as you don't overdo it).

[Anonymous]

I've never known a man to hate it, haha!

Every man I've ever known has always LOVED when I ran my fingers through his hair.

In fact, my friends and I do that for each other when we have headaches, and they're guys.

Wow - talk about overreacting!

If he doesn't like that, a simple "I prefer you not do that, babe" would suffice.

His outburst was childish, hateful, and completely unnecessary.

HE should be the one apologizing!

[Ashley8282]

hahahhahhaha wow all that over his hair?

I laughed for a long time.

Anyways like it was said, he is princess.

He must really be into his hair...

[mshaker]

I don't hate it. Ur boyfriend does.

I used to love it when my ex would run her hands through my hair.. Even though I'm the type of guy that I don't like my hair messed up when its ready to go. But when she used to do it, I never had an issue with it lol

[patoot10]

actually I hate it .. and there is nothing wrong about hating it -its a personal choice- but if my girlfriend did that I wouldn't get mad about it because I don't wanna hurt her since she meant good .. but I will tell her later that I don't like that and she is supposed to accept and understand that

[Ryosanada]

Um, I love it when girls touch my hair. I usually keep it short, and so people love touching it. If he doesn't like it, it might be a pet peeve for him.

[myspacemybroke]

Haha nah. That's just for those little bitches that plaster sh*t in their hair, and have their "due" going on. I love it when women run their fingers through my hair.

[Anonymous]

He might be a bit of an a**hole.

If he spent 60 quid on getting his hair exactly right, he probably didn't like you mussing it up.

If you'd paid for and had a perm, would you like it if he put you in a headlock, and tussled your hair?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just don't like it or getting his hair mess up.

[Anonymous]

not to pry or anything but what happened? did he apologize?

[Valhalla]

I would like it done to me.

[Anonymous]

I love it. I think it's adorable.

[Asker]

i know right?

what is wrong with him? -_-