Do NOT have sex with him after just to go past an awkward stage. That person's advice is horrible. You can easily make it WAY more awkward with sex, especially if it's awkward to begin with, and that can damage the relationship. This being said, and with the topic of sex already brought up, when you are ready, go for it, but I would say first get comfortable in the relationship, which it seems like you aren't.
Talk. That's it. That's the magical word. Talk. Awkward stages happen because both people don't know each others thoughts, they don't know what direction the relationship is going, they don't know what they want yet, or a combination of all them. You need to talk to him, and see where you two want the relationship to go, how you two feel about dating, and also cover this awkwardness you sense between you guys as well.
Talk about your nerves and just be open and honest with each other.
But also just go with it, it'll pass all relationships have these when you're close to the person before hand or if you had just been on a few dates first.
So don't worry about it, it'll pass.
Also with sex. That's something you should talk about first or just let it happen in time.
I don't see how sex could make things less awkward...
It'll pass. :) When I was 18, I started dating a close guy friend of mine who I liked a lot. The night he asked me out was magical. But when he dropped me off at my house afterward, he hugged me and kissed my cheek, and I thought, "well that was weird" haha. But the feeling was gone within a week, and it was the best relationship I've ever had. I tell you, one of the best things you can do is date a close friend. Don't let any awkward transition feelings get in the way.
It will pass with time. Just sit back and enjoy the ride! Don't worry, it's okay to be nervous!
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yes, have sex with him.
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