If a girl is too comfortable around you, is it a sign of lack of attraction to the guy?

[Anonymous]

If a girl is too comfortable around you, is it a sign of lack of attraction to the guy?

too comfortable means:
- she dresses up in causual clothes
- uses bad language
- reveals personal problems

[BrunetteNYC]

She's being herself and is at ease... I would rather have that than someone putting on a show. Girls don't go to impress guys like guys to do for girls. The only real sign is if she is not making ANY effort to look nice when she's with you.

[Asker]

I always thought girls/women generally show these signs when being around her crush/ the guy she's attracted to:
- being nervous/fidgety
- being coy
- dress up for the guy
- tries to show their best site (don't reveal personal information)

[BrunetteNYC]

The real problem here is, I don't know this girl in real life. She may have no common sense to know better (raised with bad manners?) and still likes you. Only way to go is, if you like her, ask her out. That is how you figure this out.

[Bellarina]

If she's comfortable around you that's a good thing! The fact that she tells you her personal problems means she trusts you a lot. She either likes you or thinks of you as her close/best friend.

[Asker]

I AM FRIENDZONED!!!

[Bellarina]

Unfortunately, that might be so. I suggest making a move to show you're interested in her and if she rejects you, play it cool and act like its no biggie so you can still be friends. (If you want to be that is)